I’m pretty sure I first stumbled across his videos July this year. I was not even aware he had passed away until today like a few minutes ago. I was overly obsessed with repeatedly watching his videos on working with the Super Cubs at the Van Wagner hangar at Compton Airport. I did not even know James in person or that well, but he was an inspiring figure to me. I am only 13 and already have a passion for becoming a banner pilot and watching his videos at Van Wagner boosted that long term goal. Every time I go to the Van Wagner hangar in Compton, all I could even think about is how he was once fixing the super cubs in the hangar. He was taken much too soon, but the bright side is that he did not suffer in his untimely passing. My deepest condolences to everyone one of his friends, and family.
Thank you, Matthew, for sharing those thoughts and feelings. I hope you reach your goal of becoming a banner pilot. James loved hooking banners, and he believed strongly in setting goals and reaching for them. Your enthusiasm reminds me of him ❤️
Matthew,
I’m really sorry to hear about James’s passing. It’s incredible how someone we’ve never met can have such a profound impact on our lives. It’s clear that his passion for aviation inspired you, and it’s amazing to see how his work has fueled your own dreams of becoming a banner pilot. Your visits to the Van Wagner hangar must feel special, knowing the connection you have to him and the legacy he left behind. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, and I’m sure James would be proud to know he inspired you. My condolences go out to his family and friends as well. I wish I would have had the opportunity to know James. Matthew, if you would like to further fuel your passion for aviation, and would like to talk “aviation”, please feel free to reach out to me . . . no pressure.
Yes, it really is a very upsetting set of circumstances and every visit to the hangar is a very cherished moment; And I will be sure to ever reach out to you in the near future about aviation.
Matthew and Fern,
Thanks for sharing ur passion for flying and ur sentiments of James on his memory board. As James’ mom, my heart is warmed knowing how many lives he touched. Aviation was his world and I believe he continues to soar above and around us all. Follow ur dreams. ♥️ g
Tom Lowther
1 month ago
I found James through his aircraft maintenance videos on youtube, which inspired me to get in to the maintenance side of the industry. I emailed him to tell him my story and how his videos helped me and I followed in his footsteps, all the way to getting my Pilatus type rating last year. We exchanged numbers and we chatted about the videos and maintenance, as well as his new job. I promised to buy him a beer if he was ever in my part of Europe on a layover. I’m shocked to read that he’s no longer with us. He seemed like a genuinely great guy and I was looking forward to meeting him one day.
My deepest condolences to all his friends and family.
Tom, thanks for sharing that. James would have loved to join you in Europe for that beer, and you can be assured that he would have done that were he still alive. Please raise a beer in his memory. And congrats on your Pilatus rating.
Tom, he truly was a “genuinely great guy”. I’m glad ur paths crossed in his short life. Thanks for posting. ♥️ Grace
Matthew Rymont
2 months ago
I knew James from interning with him and working at Williams in Michigan. Although we both left Michigan and the job, we kept in touch over texts/calls for the last 10 years and would see each other once every year or so. Sometimes longer gaps because life. Unfortunately, I just found out about James’s passing today since I don’t have any other friends that are close with him from that Michigan job. I had texted him shortly after he passed but just assumed he had a busy period at work as he often did. Still feels surreal at this point but feel like I need to say something now given my lateness.
I’m sure I’ll be repeating other people’s sentiments at this point but James was just an excellent friend and just awesome to observe when it came to his passions and drives in life.
I loved that he always was excited to see me. And that he always had a plan to spice up the day or keep us moving to experience more on our meetups. I got a lot of friends where we visit each other and watch TV all day. Which ain’t the worst thing in the world but variety is the spice of life. And James definitely understood that.
I loved his generosity and how he was always down to share his space or host for a weekend. Hell, I think I’ve crashed at James’s when he wasn’t even in town.
I loved how easily he could get a rapport rolling when I introduced him to one of my friends. A lot of my friends who have met him just once or twice ask me how that guy James has been. And I could be proud to tell them his latest career accomplishment or big move or adventurous trip.
I loved his focus and concern on maintaining his family/friend relationships even when things got rocky. You could tell he really gave a shit and was actually stressed himself when things weren’t going well with someone close to him.
I loved listening to his wry and interesting observations/explanations of the aviation industry. There’s too many anecdotes and fun facts to count that I would retell from ‘my pilot friend’ to my friends/family. And I ways always impressed with his well-earned rise through his career. I wish I had that passion and drive myself.
I live in Colorado now and have only met Lukas and Uncle Tim, but much love and hugs to the Sullivan family and to his closest friends. I’ve heard a lot about you guys and hope you’ve been able to come together to carry this heavy ass weight.
Dear Matthew, that was a lovely post. Thanks for remembering James and loving him like that. It warms our hearts that you have these memories. Please reach out to me at sully2759@gmail.com. I’m hoping our Paris will cross someday ❤️
After a night of sleep, realized I have also briefly met his cousins Drew and Emily too. And that I completely forgot to extend my sentiments to Catherine and anyone in her family close to James. Sorry about that. Unsure she would remember me but met her at least once for a Red Rocks show in Nov 22.
Thanks Matthew. Your shared memories warm
my heart. We miss him dearly. Grace
Juliane Hope
2 months ago
Juliane Hope
2 months ago
Catherine, Butci, Mark and family,
After recently hearing from my niece Danielle about James’ passing I have spent the past several days reading, rereading and absorbing all the beautiful memories on the board. I am deeply touched by the loving stories, poetry, thoughts about a special young man. My little story is silly and sweet.
The first time I met the four brothers James was about 10 years old.My mother Ann Hope (Sullivan) who was their great-aunt had told me that all the boys were very active, fun, funny and nice but James, James
was so thoughtful and kind to her. While I was visiting that time I kept misplacing my much needed special side shield sunglasses which the boys would help me find each time. Not too long after that when I saw the family again young James casually gave me a handwoven strap he had made so maybe I would not keep losing track of my glasses! I still have it decades later.
My heart goes out to all those who knew and loved James, he will always be remembered! Fondly, Juliane
Dearest Julianne,
I remember that visit and love that you shared the memory. We miss his kindness and trust that he has met up with dear Ann in the heavens above. ♥️ Butci
Mark Sullivan
2 months ago
NBAA Maintenance Committee Honors Former Member James Sullivan
Washington, DC, Sept. 5, 2024 – The National Business Aviation Association (NBAA) Maintenance Committee, at its recent meeting in Washington, DC, announced the renaming of its scholarship travel fund to the James Sullivan Travel Fund, in honor of the former committee member and past award recipient who passed away unexpectedly this summer. Sullivan was 32.
The fund offsets travel and lodging costs for AMT Maintenance Scholarship winners. Each year more than two dozen training courses are awarded to students and professionals interested in aircraft, engine, and avionics maintenance training.
A pilot since 16, Sullivan was a 2014 Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University graduate, held an Airframe & Powerplant Certificate with Inspectors Authorization and was a multi-rated air transport pilot. Sullivan had an extensive career as a pilot, technician and business owner. Most recently, he was a 757/767 first officer for Delta Airlines while operating his own company, SullivAir, LLC, a contract maintenance and management services provider for operators in the Los Angeles area.
With everything that Sullivan was involved in, he never forgot the impact being a two-time award recipient of the NBAA AMT Maintenance Scholarship had on him and his career. He paid that forward as an active committee volunteer who consistently shared his passion and advocacy, the committee said.
Longtime committee member and former chair Jim Huntoon said he was honored to be one of Sullivan’s mentors while a student at ERAU and as he started his career.
“From the first time I met James in 2011, he stood out. He came up after a scholarship presentation and started asking questions,” Huntoon said. “James’s energy for everything was apparent, and he impressed me as I watched him grow personally, professionally, and as a leader. He had an amazing wit, and his smile was contagious.”
As part of the Maintenance Committee, Sullivan was a co-chair of the Workforce Development (WFD) Committee Secondary Education Subcommittee.
“James was more than all his accolades in aviation, and he had bounties of them. The ones that meant the most were his personal connections with others. How he touched people’s hearts with his kindness, generosity, and willingness to show up and be present,” said subcommittee co-chair Melissa Raddatz.
WFD Subcommittee Chair Bryan Maloney said he knew instantly that Sullivan would be an excellent addition to the group. “I could tell early on that James was passionate about business aviation, and his involvement could be infectious,” Maloney said. “His passion was evident, and I truly enjoyed his commitment, involvement, and contribution. He made a lasting impression on me and will truly be missed.”
Huntoon added: “James was one of a kind, and his life and career impacting all of those who had the privilege of knowing him, and he will never be forgotten. James is soaring above all of us, and it is an honor to carry his memory and spirit forward with the NBAA James Sullivan Travel Fund, so others can grow and soar as he did.”
Thanks to NBAA and Jim Huntoon for this wonderful tribute ❤️
Mark Sullivan
3 months ago
Anthology of Gratitude
I’m grateful for having known, loved and been loved by James for 32 years. As I mingled with so many wonderful friends and relatives of James and Sean during their Celebrations of Life, it occurred to me how lucky each of us were to have known those two, very special young men.
I’ve had some sleepless hours over the past 40 nights, during which I wrote a few poems to clear my head. I’m not a poet (I’d never before written poetry) and they don’t conform to any rules of rhyme or cadence. Each was written as a stream of consciousness. I’m sharing them only because it feels good to do so. Thanks for indulging me…
Wings
Take flight, my lovely son
And soar
Reach for those dreams you’ve always held,
And soar
Be without worry, for we hold dear the time we spent with you
May our memories of your kindness give you lift, make you light on the wind,
And soar
Soar my lovely son, for yours was a life well lived and you leave us with no regrets
Only joy ❤️
Hereafter
Not real, if real is that which we understand
Not real, if real is that which can be explained
Beyond our capacity to embrace or dissect
Beyond our will to endure, to accept
Yet real. When we feel empty, it’s real
When we feel a swift longing, it’s real
When we love you with our whole being and live our lives better because you lived among us, it’s real.
Always and forever ❤️
Footprints
Life lived well, lived full
Too short, still unfolding, ceased midstream
Did you realize your many dreams?
Some in full and others in the fullness of your plans
Did you accomplish your goals?
To be kind, to be loving, to be loved
Do you know we’re going to be OK?
Aching for your presence but joyful in your memories
Better for the time we spent with you
Too short, so sweet, never forgotten
Love always ❤️
Dreaming
You’re smiling brightly as I speak
You remember what’s important to me;
you ask about that and more
You give me a hug and tell me you love me; of course I already knew that
You share your plans with me: days filled with old friends and new acquaintances
And then your gone, only this time you won’t be coming back
I try to return to this dream, but I can’t
I’m left with your love and a deep longing for your smile
Godspeed, my son, take flight and be free ❤️
An Enormous Loss
Such an enormous loss to the world, to all who knew him, to me.
He went out of his way to make me happy.
Not once; always.
Not because I’m Dad; because he’s James.
Not just me, but everyone.
And I was happy.
He looked into my eyes and smiled.
Not once; always.
Not because I’m Dad; because he’s James.
Not just me, but everyone.
And my spirits were lifted.
He listened to my every word with rapt attention, with genuine interest.
Not once; always.
Not because I’m Dad; because he’s James.
Not just me, but everyone.
And I thought I was talking with him about his favorite topic.
He asked me for advice and counsel; he bounced his ideas off me.
Not once; always.
Not because I’m Dad; because he’s James.
Not just me, but everyone.
And I felt valued.
He shared his hope, his dreams and his plans with me.
Not once; always.
Not because I’m Dad; because he’s James.
Not just me, but everyone.
And I shared his dreams.
Such an enormous loss to the world, to all who knew him; to me.
I thought I was his best friend. I am.
You thought you were his best friend. You are.
We miss you, James, and we feel a deep sense of loss.
We remember you James, and we feel a resounding happiness for the moments we shared with you.
Rest in peace, James. Your work on earth is done, and done well ❤️
On Sorrow
It’s not easy to lose a beautiful child, whom you’ve watched unfold since birth and blossom into an amazing young adult,
It’s not easy to lose your loving companion and life partner, with whom you’ve shared every hope, every dream and every plan for your future,
It’s not easy to lose your wonderful brother, with whom you’ve shared every moment of your childhood and much of your adulthood,
And it’s not easy to lose a devoted friend, a joyous cousin, an attentive uncle, or a nephew who’s always been in your orbit.
No, it’s not easy. But this is our burden to shoulder.
It’s up to each of us to remember the joy that James brought into our lives. Our joy: that was James’s gift to each of us.
It’s up to each of us to give forward the kindness that James brought into this world. Be kind, always: this was James’s lesson to each of us.
Rest in peace, James. Your work on earth is done, and done well ❤️
I wanted to reach out and share how much James meant to me, even though we never met in person. I started watching his videos on YouTube long before I began A&P school, and I can confidently say that I’ve seen every one of them.
His passion for aviation and his incredible knowledge were captivating, and he was one of the key influences that inspired me to pursue a career in this field.
I remember following his journey on YouTube and LinkedIn and feeling so thrilled when I found that he had become a pilot for Delta. It was incredible to see how far he had come in his career.
Today, when I checked for new content, I was devastated to learn of his passing. James was a role model to me. Please know that his legacy will live on in the many people he inspired, including myself.
My deepest condolences to you and your family during this incredibly difficult time. James will be deeply missed and fondly remembered by all who were fortunate enough to be touched by his life and work.
Angel, thanks for taking the time to share your connection to our dear son James. Our hearts are full knowing that he touched so many people in his short stay here on earth. We are all blessed for having known such a great being. Peace to you. Grace
Mark Sullivan
3 months ago
Dear family and friends of James,
Several of you have asked if there would be some kind of memorial fund that you might choose to contribute to. I’m writing to let you know that we’re speaking with several of the non-profit aviation organizations that James has been involved with over the years about doing something with them in his memory and honor. If and when we’re able to pull this together, I’ll post again and ask that you spread the word.
With love, Mark ❤️
susan Whoriskey
3 months ago
Mark & Family: I was very saddened to learn today from Marianne about the passing of your son James. I enjoyed reading the story here about Jame’s full and adventurous life and seeing his beautiful smile. I can’t imagine the loss you all must be feeling. I have learned over the years that those we love who are gone remain paramount in our lives. May your love of James and the love of family sustain you all. Kindly, SUSAN
Susan, thanks so much for reaching out. I love the thought that those we love who are gone remain paramount in our lives, and our love of James will indeed sustain us. Love and hugs, cousin Mark❤️
Imran Zaveri
3 months ago
I remember watching James’ videos on YouTube about working at SurfAir while I was researching going to A&P school in 2016. The fun he had doing the work with his friends and his attitude made me want to pursue being an A&P. Fast forward a few years later and I ran into him at the NBAA maintenance conference in Dallas. He was so friendly and shared his number with me if I needed any help during those early days as an A&P. Godspeed James, you will sorely be missed.
While I only knew James for about 18 months, the expression, “First impressions are lasting impressions”, certainly applied to James in such a positive way, when I first met him. His smile and friendly disposition was so contagious.
James and I quickly formed a bond because of our love for flying/aviation. We especially had in common our love for the airline we had both always wanted to spend the rest of our careers as pilots.
I was deeply saddened when I heard of James’ death. Even though I had only known him for about 18 months, it felt like we had been friends for a long time, and I wish we could have had many more years to nurture the friendship we began 18 months ago.
Catherine, Mark and Grace, along with your sons/family, are in my thoughts and prayers during this season of grief, losing such a wonderful person. James will be greatly missed.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on James’ memory board. I agree that he was the master of “first impressions”. I believe it was because he genuinely cared about people, and wanted to know what they were passionate about in their lives.
What a gift he was to this planet. He will be missed, but he has taught me how to be a better person. With kindness, Grace
We had heard rumors that our Granddaughter Catherine was smitten with a new acquaintance. This made us happy since she had been very selective about her personal relationships. Daughter-in-law Sydney kept us informed surreptitiously but we never heard about him directly from Catherine until she was ready for the unveiling.
We remember the first time we met the Mystery Man we very properly extended our hands for a shake but these were rebuffed and we were enveloped in a warm hug by those wonderful long arms. We very quickly became great fans of Catherine’s choice of this young man. We could tell he was something special and over the ensuing months we could see her happiness grow in a way we had never seen.
James had a unique ability to make those of us who were on the sidelines feel as if we were in the game with him. Whether it was a text to ask if he could come by for a visit when he was in the neighborhood; send a video of a plane decked out for a pro team; videos of landings at various airports; bringing by a Delta ball cap; bringing with Catherine a wonderful meal they had prepared together; and always interested in what we were doing and downplaying the exciting life of a commercial pilot he was doing.
Our hearts are broken for our Catherine and for Grace and Mark and for the entire family.
But we are blessed to have known James Sullivan.
Love,
Nancy and Barclay Cox
Dearest Nancy and Barclay,
It was so nice to spend time with you this weekend in Nashville. Sydney and Michael created a beautiful celebration of James’ life, and our hearts were filled with all of the stories people shared. He was a grand young man, gone too soon, but leaving us all richer for him having connected our families. ♥️ grace
Alex Meeker
3 months ago
Our time kayaking in Baja with the Sullivan family and Auntie Kaya was incredibly special. It was so easy to get along with the entire family but James was especially outgoing, inquisitive and easy to connect with.
One of the outings that we did as a group was a snorkeling expedition to a sea lion colony. Even though the water was chilly and choppy, we had some special encounters with some of the younger sea lions as they were also outgoing and inquisitive themselves. The way they danced through the water gracefully and effortlessly, I’m sure James shared a similar joy with his mastery of flight.
The Meeker family sends an enormous hug to Catherine and the Sullivans, our hearts go out to you all and James’ rich and extended family that he created over the years throughout all of his impressive pursuits and passions.
Ahhhhh Jenn. It’s so nice to hear from you and see your pictures. Our families, plus auntie Kaya was a magical gathering with so many great memories.
I trust that you and your family are doing well. Please consider popping in, if you ever find yourselves in the Boston area. ♥️
Many years ago James had a YouTube channel detailing airplane maintenance that I took a following to and kept up with his uploads as at the time I was working in aviation maintenance. After a few years of following James he stopped uploading and I occasionally wondered why he stopped uploading videos. When I saw the class roster I saw James Sullivan so my curiosity took over wondering if it would be him. As fate would have it 7 or 8 years later I walked into the hotel lobby to start to grab breakfast before indoctrination at Delta, I went for a cup of coffee and James was the first person I saw. I approached him and said “Is that you James, from YouTube?” He kinda chucked and said,” that’s me! His personality was infectious and after a few minutes of small talk it felt like long lost friends as we had so much in common. Myself and the entire indoc class had an amazing time going through training together with James as he was always so upbeat, funny, and most of all extremely kind to all that he met. The night of our wing ceremony was absolutely incredible, we all were celebrating a massive milestone with our loved ones and class mate. My now fiancé, Hannah and I were honored to spend some time that night with Catherine and James enjoying a few drinks and their presence that night.
After our fleet training, while James as based in Atlanta we would often walk the terminal before our trips start just talking about our future goals and just about life. James was a sharp dude but he never took himself too seriously, I think that’s something I learned from James, and I will continue to practice going forward in life. While our time knowing each other was short, it was a pleasure and an honor to know James.
Bradley, It was such a pleasure meeting you and Hannah this weekend in Nashville. Your stories of James warm my heart and I’m so happy that your paths crossed in his short time here on this earth. I agree 💯 that we shouldn’t take ourselves too seriously. 💕 Grace
Melissa A. Raddatz
3 months ago
James,
It was an honor and privilege to be co-chair with you on the NBAA Workforce Development subcommittee for the secondary education group! I thoroughly enjoyed our conversations and the braining storming we did to share the good news of business aviation which was really us sharing our love of aviation with others.
I will always remember your kind soul, giving heart and impeccable character and grace. You are one of the best of the best and it shows in all those whom you left a little better than you found them.
I leave you with one of my favorite poems…
High Flight Oh! I have slipped the surly bonds of Earth And danced the skies on laughter-silvered wings; Sunward I’ve climbed, and joined the tumbling mirth of sun-split clouds,-and done a hundred things You have not dreamed of-wheeled and soared and swung High in the sunlit silence. Hov’ring there, I’ve chased the shouting wind along, and flung My eager craft through footless halls of air…. Up, up the long, delirious, burning blue I’ve topped the wind-swept heights with easy grace Where never lark nor ever eagle flew- And, while with silent lifting mind I’ve trod The high untrespassed sanctity of space, Put out my hand, and touched the face of God Written by John G. Magee
Mel, Thanks for your kind words. James really enjoyed being part of the NBAA workforce development team. He will truly be missed by so many. Peace to you and the team. ♥️ Grace
Mel, I love the team photo of you and James. He loved working with you and NBAA ❤️
Kimmy
3 months ago
James and I became friends while working at HHR. He was a phenomenal person because he had a genuine, caring, warm hearted spirit. I’m blessed to have known him and call him my friend. He’s touched so many lives that his memory will forever be cherished.
Funny story: One day James was filming one of his many blogs, him and Vince completely caught me off guard so as I was attempting to block my face, James was trying to assure me that I looked ok and that he wouldn’t post it. Then he whispered to the camera that he was gonna post it and did (it was a funny moment) Blog is in the link below
His blogs were funny and educational because he spoke from the heart when it came to aviation. He had so much passion and drive that it inspired others around him, including myself.
Kimmy, Thank you for posting and sharing your memories of James. I laughed at knowing that you are an unconsenting star in one of his VLOGs. I didn’t see the link attached in your post. If you read this, please post it so I can watch it. ♥️ Grace, James’ adoring mom
Thanks, Kimmy. I love that you were inspired by James’ passion and drive ❤️
Kaya
3 months ago
I spent only the better part of one week with James and his family, but he was a big part of a group of people who saved my life. It’s a hard story for me to tell now, one I’ve only shared with a couple people, but I want to share it with Catherine, and maybe Lukas and Kevin, too. I showed up in Baja California after Christmas ten years ago in bad shape. I’d had lost my grandma, lost my dog, and had a couple recent romantic disappointments after a lifetime of them on top of that. Christmastime put a big spotlight on all that was missing. It felt as if there was no love , warmth, or kindness for me in the world. On Christmas Eve that year, I struggled to stay on the planet, but figured I had already paid for this trip and maybe some sunlight would help my brain, so I should take it before making any final decisions. I thought that on this trip, there would be other single people who felt disenfranchised from their families and the culture at Christmastime and I wouldn’t feel so alone, but instead I found myself on a sea kayaking trip with two large families, each with three college-aged kids. I was horrified, certain that it would be another week of being an outsider. I woke up in my tent on the island that first morning and cried. Since it was windy, we hiked up to the tallest point on the island–a place high on a cliff overlooking the sea. As I peeked over the edge, I had a strong urge to jump, but I didn’t want to ruin other people’s trip, so I made myself back away and sit down. I really struggled through that day and didn’t know how I would make it through the week. And then, that night, James got out Cards Against Humanity, and he and Lukas taught all of us to play. It was my turning point. James made me laugh until I cried. We all did. It ended up being one of my favorite nights of my life. I couldn’t believe how fast a day could turn around. As the week went on, James and these two families kept me laughing and made me feel as if they had adopted me. At the end of our goodbye dinner, the kids from the other family group hugged me and called me Auntie Kaya, and then with his typical silly joy, James initiated the three of them running over to me, squealing “Auntie Kaya!” and group hugged me too. It filled me up with enough joy and love that I could go back to my cold and empty life and endure it long enough to change it. I really credit these two families and their love and light as well as the caring kayak guides with saving my life. The love and joy James radiated made a difference in this world, a lasting impact, even to those of us who were only lucky enough to spend a week with him. He was so funny, so smart, and had such a big heart. I’ve always hoped that my path would cross with his again someday. Love, gratitude, and infinite compassion to the Sullivan Family, Catherine, and all who loved him. What an exquisite soul.
Dearest Kaya,
Thanks for sharing your memories and your personal story from a very difficult time in your life. We truly did adopt you that week as “one of ours”.
I’m so happy that you decided to stay on this planet and give this world, and its people another chance. James was always a master at reading people and knowing just who needed him to share his kindness. I’ve dug up some pics from that trip and am so happy to have been reminded of the laughs we shared that week, ten years ago. With Love, your family in Boston. ♥️
Kaya, I’m so glad you wrote in and shared that moving story. I remember those days on the water off Baja fondly. But, unlike James, I was unaware that you were struggling at that time. I hope that you are well, always ❤️
Alberto Silva
3 months ago
Here are a few pictures of the time James was with us and the Comparin family. It has been a great joyful experience
My memories go back to those times and even before to Saint Paul,MN, when I first met the four kids for an unforgettable dinner.
I’ll keep James’ bright eyes and clever endearing smile in my heart.
Dearest Alberto,
Thank you for sharing your memories and all of the pictures from your adventures. The Silva and Comparin families hold special places in all of our hearts. You would not be surprised by the lovely woman James chose to marry, she is a kindred spirit with a similarly light heart and we feel blessed that he brought her into our family. It is our hope one day to bring Catherine on a grand tour of Italy to meet James’ extended family. Until we see you all, please live life well, as James did, and spread joy and kindness often. ♥️ Butci
Dearest Alberto, thanks for posting those wonderful photos. James loved his four Italian sisters, and each of them brought him joy. And they continue to bring us joy.
I, too, will keep James’ bright eyes and clever endearing smile in my heart forever ❤️
Alberto Silva
3 months ago
My memories go back to those times and even before to Saint Paul,MN, when I first met the four kids for an unforgettable dinner.
I’ll keep James’ bright eyes and clever endearing smile in my heart.
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Jim Huntoon
3 months ago
It has taken a week for me to be able to type this. I met James as a young man at Embry-Riddle in 2011 and it was clear from my first introduction he was a special young man. I was providing a scholarship presentation for NBAA AMT scholarships and James came up after the meeting and started asking questions. From that first meeting I found a fellow aviator that had the passion that drove me to ERAU and into the business aviation world. Over the next few years we shared a lot of great times, and he went on to receive two NBAA AMT scholarships and I helped him, and others manage the NBAA club at ERAU. After James graduated, I was very proud of watching him grow and continue to always look for ways to improve himself. He even joined me at a Nascar race in Michigan and that was a fun crazy weekend. When he was at a crossroads between flying with Surf Air and looking at a business aviation opportunity and a Flying opportunity he reached out and asked for advice and input and I was happy to connect him with several Chief Pilots who all said, “Go get Jet Time”. Over many years James continued to help us with the NBAA Maintenance Committee, and I always looked forward to him joining us and spending time with him. In June James reached out as we had a NBAA event in NY and we arranged for him to come to the show and had a chance to get caught up and again I just always smile when I see him and hear about what he was doing.
He was a passionate aviator, who loved his fiancée, his family and his friends. I have been blessed to help a lot of students over the years and even more blessed to have the chance to know James as he was just an amazing human being in every sense of the word. I am truly lucky to have been able to be one of his Mentors at ERAU and after. God brought home another angel with James. I will miss my friend, his wit, his smile and his amazing energy for life.
I pray for his Fiancée, Mom, Dad and siblings and all those we are also morning for the loss of such an amazing person.
God bless all of you and may his grace be with you in the days and years to come.
Dear Jim,
Thanks for sharing you memories and interactions with James. He spoke of you often and admired your wisdom and mentoring. You were a big part of why he wanted to serve as a mentor to others. Peace to you. Grace
I was honored to know him and see him grow in every way. You raised an amazing son and I told him more than once he needed thank his parents for having amazing parents and helping him become the person he was. I am the former Chairman of the NBAA Maintenance Committee and we would like to discuss something we would like to do to honor James if you find time in the next couple of weeks please reach out to me.
Thanks, Jim. James always respected you and thrived under your mentorship. He spoke of you often ❤️
Jeremy Appel
4 months ago
I met James only one time at a beer event I ran with his cousin, Luis. He and his partner explained to me their move to NYC and how much it meant to them. We discussed his interest in flying and what his job was like. He was so happy and so passionate about his new endeavor. I give my whole heart to him and his family.
I first met James when we did a Procter and Gamble student development program at their corporate flight department in Cincinnati. It was a one week program showing aviation students what the corporate aviation life was like. I was initially intimidated by James’ impressive resume and his background in mechanics- the other three interns were but lowly pilots. However, that feeling quickly dissipated once I got to know James. He was kind, humble, and easy to get along with. We lost touch after that internship, but saw each other again at LAX a few years later. I was flying for SkyWest and he was flying a PC12 at the time. We recognized each others faces and it room a few seconds for us to both remember how we knew each other but I still remember it making my day running into him. I was in the middle of a tough work trip and seeing him and his positive demeanor was exactly what I needed. Fast forward almost 7 years and I ran into James in the ATL pilot crew room. I was so happy to see that he made it to Delta and to learn that he was on the same fleet as I. I congratulated him on making it to Delta and, having just upgraded to captain myself, told him I hoped that we could fly a trip together soon. That trip will have to be for another lifetime. Much love, James.
Photo is at the P&G internship. Myself on the bottom, Newman at the top who is also a Delta 757/767 first officer now.
Dear Yann,
I enjoyed reading your post and always appreciate a picture from the business side of James’ life. I’m so happy that you pushed past your initial “intimidation” to get to know the true “kind, humble and easy to get along with” James.
♥️ Grace (James’ mom)
Thanks, Yann, for sharing that story. We’ll always remember James as kind, humble, and easy to get along with. Loved the P&G photo ❤️
Paola Comparin
4 months ago
The first time we met the 4 Sullivan brothers in Minnesota was in 1999. With Bianca we had arrived in the US the night before but the children were already asleep. Early in the morning we heard little feet walking outside the door and James and Kevin appeared, probably curious to meet these two girls arriving from Italy.
Going through pictures of this summer together and the ones that followed in Seattle and Maine, brought me back to the many many many adventures we had together: camping, baseball games, swimming in the lake, introducing us to smores… I found a picture of a walk just Mark and James (and Rusty) and the two of us. I don’t remember the name of the place (Widbey island, maybe?) but I remember how we enjoyed the beautiful nature we were in. We really loved having 4 little brothers on the other side of the ocean!
I have not had the pleasure to meet James as an adult, but reading all your stories here I see he was a beautiful person and a generous soul.
A big hug to the whole family and Catherine.
James, you’ll stay in our hearts.
Paola, Thanks for sharing your old pictures and memories. I know that you would have found the adult version of James to be even greater, kinder and more generous, than the young boy that you played frog juice with and spent summers bouncing around together. Hug and love to you and yours. ♥️ B
Thanks, Paola. I loved the photos you shared and your memories of those wonderful times we had together. I wish we were not so far apart from each other ❤️
Anne Galbraith
4 months ago
I am so saddened to have lost my sweet, sweet nephew, but feel so fortunate to have had him in our family and in my world. He showed us that the joys in life are boundless, and so easily in reach when we simply connect with those around us by sharing a little bit of love, kindness and curiosity.
From the time he was a toddler, that little guy was a bundle of immense energy. I remember sitting on the rug with him (age 2?) and playing planes, trains and automobiles – with such focus on the task at hand. More recently, he would stop by to visit me on his east coast swings having researched a full slate of local comedy clubs, trendy restaurants, dive bars, and concerts in the park to test out on his 8 hour stay.
I think James perhaps understood the world better than the rest of us. Soaring above the endless forests, golden sunsets, and expansive oceans must have deeply touched him, he loved it so much. It certainly gave him a unique perspective on how much beauty and good is around us, and how fortunate we are all. When he touched back on the ground, he wanted to do it all and grab life by the horns. And he did. With a big grin. He was so on top of this world with happiness when I last saw him, having found Catherine (who could keep up with him!) and launching a new adventure together.
Losing James will forever leave a pain in our hearts. But I am ever so thankful that he gave us a window seat with a view of all that is good and fun in this world. I hope to honor his memory by taking a little bit of that with me every day.
Dearest Annie,
Thanks for sharing the love that you had for James. You were like a mother to him, but better, because you had no expectations, just unending love, awe and appreciation. He was able to be his true self in your presence. That was a gift that the two of you shared. ♥️
So sweet, Annie, thanks. I also think James understood the world better than the rest of us, perhaps because he always looked at the world through the eyes of others. Such a gift he had for people, and such a gift we was to us ❤️
Mark Sullivan
4 months ago
On Monday, July 29th, one week from his passing, a few of us gathered on the isthmus at Grand Lake, CO, to memorialize our beloved James. Mom, Dad, Catherine and her brother Michael, James’s brothers, and Uncle Tim (representing our extended family) joined hands in this lovely setting (pictured below), and offered the following prayer to James in the heavens.
Our dearest James, whom we loved so so much, from the moment we met you and without pause throughout your all-too-short time here on earth, and forever more, we wish you Godspeed on your final flight. It’s our hope that the wings you earned at such a young age, and that you cherished at all times, will help you soar into the heavens where we’ll one day meet up with you again. We also hope that you continue to fly over us often, because we feel your loving presence whenever you do so.
We’re surrounded by love and family and more friends of yours than one could imagine. And we’re going to be OK. We miss you immensely, yet we’re engulfed in the memories of countless people whom you’ve touched in lasting ways. We’ve learned from their stories this past week. We’ve learned to be more joyful and more passionate; we’ve learned to put people first in our lives and to share in their interests and passions; and we’ve learned to do simple acts of kindness for others, often and always. We’ve lost you, James, but you’ve left us behind in a world that’s a far better place because of you.
You’ve also left us with an extraordinary gift: the combining of two loving families. We Sullivans have gained Catherine as a daughter, sister, niece and aunt, and Michael as a brother, and all of the Kisers as our newly extended family. And we know that Catherine, Michael, Sydney, Kelly, Kevin R, Tim K, Nancy and Barclay feel the same about us Sullivans. Thank you for that; it’s truly a blessing for us all.
Godspeed, James. You’ll remain in our hearts forever, and our deep love for you abides, Amen.
This was our family’s way of memorializing James. We’ll organize a Celebration of Life on both the East and West coasts within the next few months. We ask that you memorialize James in your own way before this, so we can come together in joy and not sorrow.
In our loving embrace, Mom, Dad, Kevin S, Lukas, Sam, Kait, Mattie, Catherine, Michael and the extended Kiser family, and Uncle Tim and the extended Sullivan family
Attached photos are:
Monday, at the Grand Lake isthmus (8,400 feet)
Tuesday, on the continental divide (12,000 feet; yet closer to James)
Wednesday, as James was flying by us again (zoom in and look closely in the lower left)
Thanks for sharing with us all. I love the pictures and the airplane in the clouds. His presence is warming.
Madeleine Eno
4 months ago
I was walking through Logan at sunrise yesterday when a huge Delta jet taxied in, bathed in a golden morning glow. The light from it poured into the walkway so brightly a few of us stopped and stared.
Vermont, 1996-ish. I woke very early and came inside to make coffee. James, Kevin and Lukas were already dressed (maybe in cute little Tyrolean boots?) and coloring peacefully at the dining room table. I sat down and asked what they were up to.
“We’re working quietly so Mom and Dad can sleep,” James said.
Washington 2005-ish. I was lucky to take a couple of wonderful and gnarly hikes with James and his mom. I can picture his wiry little legs, powering along cheerfully in front of me—without a single gripe. He was intrepid.
Oregon 2018-ish. James was flying a client to Oregon from California for a hunting trip near where I lived. He made the connection and all the arrangements to meet up and was the greatest dinner companion, asking insightful questions, telling stories about his clients, and describing what it was like to fly over different parts of the West. We sat for a couple hours, then some friends of mine came in—one of them a pilot, too—and the night went on even longer. I drove away from the restaurant that night so enlightened and inspired by him. Filled up with possibility and laughter and respect for how he lived his life.
I saw one of those friends 3 weeks ago and she asked about James and mentioned how struck she’d been by his ease with a tableful of middle-aged strangers.
He not only lit up a room, he shifted that room, leaving something indelible and unforgettable behind.
Sending love to Mark, Grace, Catherine, Kevin, Sam, and Lukas and to James’ tribe of friends, cousins, and colleagues as you grieve the immeasurable loss of such a pure and beautiful soul.
Madeline, I love your timeline of memories, and couldn’t agree more with
the way that “He not only lit up a room, he shifted that room, leaving something indelible and unforgettable behind”.
Thanks for sharing his life and memories with us.
♥️ B
Oh Madeline, I love hearing those memories. “We’re working quietly so Mom and Dad can sleep” captures so much of James: he was always doing things for someone else’s benefit. I, too, am filled up with possibility and laughter and respect for how he lived his life. I feel that way about you, as well ❤️
Beth n Rick Spealman
4 months ago
Our condolences to all the Family and Friends! Beautiful, loving memory board ❤️ 😢 ~ 🪶
Luis
4 months ago
I have always deeply admired James’ ability to accomplish the things that he set his mind to and his logical approach to pursuing those things that he is passionate about. I’d visit York for Thanksgiving as a teenager and he would invite me to play his favorite game—his flight simulator. The patience and dedication he would spend on it would blow my mind. “Is the landing and takeoff fun at least? And how many hours do you do this? Do you avoid other planes?” “Nah, you just kind of watch the controls and adjust a couple of things and the plane kind of lands itself-I love it though.”
So, it was no surprise to me that he got his pilot’s license so early. What was a surprise was a spontaneous invite on a subsequent trip to escape Thanksgiving preparations and ride as a sole passenger as he logged training hours with an instructor while he attempted aborted landings. He assured me there was nothing to worry about in his carefree excitement and I mostly believed him. Watching my younger cousin (who could barely vote) fly through the skies and approach various Pennsylvania airports was one of the most incredible experiences I have ever had. I was, in that moment, and still am, so immensely proud of his confident pursuit of passion and his determination to make it work.
Years later, as his career brought him through New York more often he would make an effort to reach out every time (I think), with at least 2 hours notice. I think it speaks to James’ amenability, sense of adventure, and dedication to keeping in touch that he would be willing to track me down wherever I happened to be in the city, and he was always invited to join. James got to meet and hang out with my various friend groups, and most got used to unexpectedly seeing him tag along with me to whatever it was we were doing. But many times it just meant him coming over and getting to hang with Gabriella and me. “Got an event tonight? No? Cool if I come over?”
His visits were always welcome, and would inevitably turn into an evening hanging in our living room and talking into the night about anything under the sun. I would sit in amazement at his perspective on not just life, but at the way he would go about resolving any problems before him in this seemingly obvious way. I would get to live vicariously through his travels as he regaled me with stories from all the places he would go to but also kept me informed about family updates gained through other chance stops in places he had been.
I always appreciated these visits, as fly by night as they were, because there was a strong sense of kinship and familiality to them beyond a friendship and a good hang that I like to think reenergized us both. It would always invariably end with a big, tired, hug and a “I love you, cousin” before stumbling off to bed. I feel obligated to mention that he would always fold his sheets and leave everything tidier than how he found it before embarking onto his next destination, to Gabriella’s amazement.
The first trips up with Catherine before they announced their move were such natural fun; we were so thankful to have her in our lives and we were ecstatic when they announced they were planning the move. Unknowingly, they had visited while Gabriella was first pregnant. James held Livia when she was just a month old, and Catherine was so wonderful with her in all of their visits after that. The idea of having more family for Livia to grow up around reminded me of the closeness I felt with all of our extended cousins during our own childhood.
James and Catherine’s combined energy and willingness to explore this new city, to try and find the best places and things to do was and is an exciting light at the end of the tunnel after a year of infant-rearing for Gabriella and me. We talked endlessly about navigating the city, but there was plenty of time to do it and experience it together. Just like the texts I used to get when he would visit, James would reach out and see if they could come over and cook dinner with the understanding of Livia’s bedtime and it was wonderful. We would have a great time making dinner or even quietly chatting and sipping wine while waiting for Livia to fall asleep. I can’t express how much my heart bleeds at the thought that we only had those few when we talked about having so many.
It still does not feel real to write that I will miss James’ fun, relaxed style with a dash of maverick, his eagerness to be helpful and just. His willingness to go well out of his way for a new experience, his gumption. But as we all do, I really miss what will not come: trips to museums, picnics in the park, beach days, and so many dinner nights with wine and good conversation after Livia has gone to bed.
I grieve for the loss that James’ passing has meant for everyone he has touched, as widespread as he has traveled, and for those that had not yet met him, but would have. I grieve with Mark, Butci, Catherine, Kevin, Lukas, and Sam. He is survived by a family that loved him tremendously amplified by the love and joy for life he showed in return.
Luis, you have captured the spirit of James so beautifully in your memorial…… and the pic of him with Liv is one of my favorites.
I could almost hear his voice when I read the words “Got an event tonight? No? Cool if I come over?”
I know that you know how special you and your family were to him. He had a gift of letting people know how special there were, and it was genuine. We have truly lost a dear human being, but at the same time, I feel so honored to have known him and shared his space for so much of his life. Blessed are we all for the memories that we’ve shared and the ongoing love and relationship of Catherine and her family ♥️
Luis, I love that photo. Thank you for sharing those wonderful memories of James. I was also immensely proud of his confident pursuit of passion and his determination to make it work. And you had me in tears several times: you captured his spirt so well and so lovingly. I know that James also felt a strong sense of kinship and a familiarity to his visits with you that went beyond friendship. You’re much like James in the way you embrace the people in your orbit. And my heart also bleeds at the thought that you, Gabriella, James and Catherine only had those few times together. I hold you all in my heart. Please continue to think of him during your picnics in the park; he’ll be with in spirit ❤️
Gabriella Turrisi
4 months ago
Over the past week, Luis and I have done much talking and reflecting on time spent with James. We have many wonderful memories, and are so thankful that we were able to see him as much as we did in recent months. James would go out of his way to stop by for visits anytime he had a layover in NYC, even if the visit would only be an hour or two. When those layovers instead became a Brooklyn residency for a newly engaged couple, we were all so excited.
James would frequently use a lull in the conversation to bring up something he was thankful for, or simply to express happiness in the moment. He’d let loved ones know he loved them, out loud and often. His positive attitude and perceptiveness to know how to be helpful without anyone even asking made it so easy and fun to spend time with him. Those are just a few qualities of his beautiful personality that I admire and feel grateful to have been on the receiving end of.
I thank him for all the dinners we shared, walks we took, plans we made, for giving me the gift of a friendship with Catherine, and for loving his little cousin, Livia. His memory will forever be in my heart, and in the stories we tell Livia about him.
To everyone who loved him and is holding on to sweet memories, please accept my condolences.
Dearest Gabriella,
Thanks for sharing your sentiments and pictures of our sweet James. I know that you know how much he loved you and your little family. He always told us how much he cherished his layovers that included your family. He and Catherine made a lovely home in Brooklyn, with your help, and were so excited to spend years together sharing adventures. Our hearts hurt for the dreams that you had. I trust that your memories will carry you forward. ♥️ Butci (and Mark)
Oh, Gabriella, I so wish the four of you had more time together. I join you in thanking James for the gift of our friendship with Catherine. She shares James kind heart and joyful spirit. We are blessed to have her and you in our family ❤️
Stef Galbraith
4 months ago
I’m going to miss getting a surprise text from James that he was in my city and asking if I wanted to go for a hike or get dinner. We have definitely all learned a thing or two from him about how to stay in touch with family and bring people together.
I’m so grateful I saw you last weekend in NYC and will always remember you rocking your baby blue pedicure.
Steph,
So very sweet, I love the picture of him holding you as a little girl. I think we will all miss the surprise texts. James was the best at pulling threads of people and their lives together.
He has taught me so many important lessons. ♥️ Aunt Butci
Aw, Steph, I love the photos you shared. So dear ❤️
Claudia and Lucia, the Italian sisters
4 months ago
We first heard of James from Bianca and Paola, who went all the way across the ocean to visit this great family and came back with many stories about all the adventures with the four kids. Then it was finally our turn to spend the summer with the new brothers, Butci and Mark.
It was six great summers, spent travelling in the big car, singing, playing in corn fields, fishing crabs and sleeping in the tent. James was always with us, trying to understand us in spite of our broken English and to make us feel at home with all the family!
The last summer we spent with James, we were 17 and travelled on our own in the south of Italy, camping, dancing tarantella, cooking pasta on the camping stove by the sea. His eyes full of awe and always ready to welcome the Italian oddities. It was a great summer for all of us and thinking of it makes us smile!
We spent a lot of time growing up together and his sweet smile lives in our memories!
Claudia and Lucia,
It was so sweet to read your post and see new pictures from your southern Italian adventure. James loved you both like sisters and learned how much fun traveling without a set plan could be.
We look forward to our paths crossing soon so that we can share some hugs and laughs in his honor. Thanks for being in our lives. ♥️ Butci
Dear sisters of James, thanks for sharing those wonderful photos. It was six great summers for all of us, too. I only wish it could have lasted forever ❤️
John Meye
4 months ago
I never met James, but watched him countless times on his YouTube channel while he worked for Surf Air–I can honestly tell you there has never been ANY person on YouTube that has left more positive impression in my psyche than James Sullivan–I’m just wanting his family and loved ones to know that. RIP James, JPM
John, I loved hearing the positive impression that James’ YouTube videos left on you. Sweet, sweet, sweet. You would have loved him in person. ♥️
Kelly Rudd
4 months ago
Dear James,
You were the one that made my daughter’s smile brighter and her adventurous spirit braver. You took Catherine under your wing and encouraged her to soar to places she would have never gone alone. Life is fuller and memories are richer because of you. Thank you for the love you showed and the incredible joy you brought to her life. We will never forget.
The first time I met you was when you and Catherine came by our home to borrow a ladder. You were helping her set up her classroom at school for the upcoming year. I loved how you were on her team and always willing without question. Thank you.
You lived a big life and encouraged those around you to do the same. I wish I could have bottled up some of your excitement and energy for people, events, adventure, skills, and knowledge. I have learned from you – Carpe Diem.
Your beautiful brown eyes were bright and sparkled when you smiled. Through those eyes, you saw the world and the people in it with graciousness and kindness. You loved people and building relationships was a priority. Thank you for teaching us well.
I have wonderful memories of sharing a family meal, tackling a puzzle during the holidays, meeting for a summer evening at Long Hollow Gardens, and meeting you and Catherine out for a pizza, burger at The Pharmacy, or taco. A favorite time that I will always treasure is when you took Catherine to her school early in the morning and then came by our home with no real purpose except to know each other better. I was baking cookies and you sat watching and talking and taste-testing as things came out of the oven. I loved our sincere and lively conversation
I will always remember the evening you and Catherine brought Mark and Grace to our home for dinner for us to meet. You were both nervous and anxious for all to go well. Little did you (and we) know what an instant connection and love we would feel for one another. People from different worlds come together in love for their children, authenticity in relationships, and genuine interest in each other’s lives. We laughed and commented that the next time they needed to bring their PJs so the night would not have to end. We will forever be connected, and I am grateful.
Gripping sadness and grief of our loss come in waves and the longing for more time with you will always remain. Memories are sweet and will forever be treasured and having known you, and loved you, James, will be forever!
Aww, Kelly. Thanks for sharing our boy and moving him so. I loved reading all of your memories, and this really stood out: “Your beautiful brown eyes were bright and sparkled when you smiled. Through those eyes, you saw the world and the people in it with graciousness and kindness. You loved people and building relationships was a priority. Thank you for teaching us well.” And the time that James stopped by your home with no real purpose except to know each other better. Yep, that’s James. And the photo of James with his second Mom is adorable ❤️❤️
Kelly, you have captured the essence of James so well in your post. I’m sure that he is smiling down upon us, so pleased with himself for having joined our two wonderful families forever…….and the picture is a favorite of mine.
I’m so honored to share the role of “other mother” with you. ♥️ G
Bettina Ebert
4 months ago
Dear Sullivan family, dear Catherine,
our sincere condolences.
James and Nick visited us in Frankfurt in 2008 and spent two weeks with us and our daughters Vici and Toni. We had the idea of driving to Berlin with the boys to show them the city and we all drove off together in a VW bus. The two boys had a fair bit of jet lag and the German history and the guided tour were a bit overwhelming for them. But what I remember well was James’s ability to find his way around. He was a very friendly, polite boy, helpful and always up for a joke with Nick. He made us his egg sandwiches for breakfast and the boys loved going to our city’s outdoor pool. He told us enthusiastically about his plans to become a pilot and when I read his CV now I am amazed at how he fulfilled his dream. My family and I are terribly sorry about your loss and we wish you lots of strength for the time ahead. I have attached a few photos of his visit. We will always remember James . Be hugged
Bettina , Kurt Victoria and Antonia
Wonderful memory! Thanks so much for hosting them and sharing these pics.
I love the Pink Floyd t-shirt. And that looks like a signed Spoon Gimme Fiction shirt!
Betinna, thanks for sharing your memories and the photos of your adventures. I remember driving Nick and James to the airport as if it was just a few years ago. I’m happy that your family had the opportunity to share a piece of his short life. Be hugged back to you dear heart. ♥️ Butci
Kevin Rudd
4 months ago
It was a wonderful blessing for me to know James and, through our precious Catherine, to welcome him into our family. He was intelligent, optimistic, creative, skilled, adventurous, gregarious, and loving (as attested by posts here from many family and friends). As I reflect on the times he and I shared one-on-one, like our lunch at 51st Deli in Nashville, I am reminded of what a great conversationalist and deep thinker James was.
I was often surprised by his enthusiasm for and ability to build friendships with so many people. He was one of the most relational people I’ve known. James extravagantly shared life with others.
I spent some moments in Brooklyn looking through his childhood keepsakes that Grace and Mark collected and was delighted to see his little boy stories and drawings, including imagined sports cars with clever and funny names. He clearly had an early-on fascination with exotic rides, although in time his car (!) clearly showed that his frugality had won the day.
I am grateful for the vibrant life that James had and shared with all of us. We will carry with us many memories of his beaming smile, hugs, and special moments.
James is so suddenly gone and I grieve with Mark, Grace, Kevin, Lukas, Sam, Kait, and Mattie, and all our extended family and friends. Especially, my heart breaks for Catherine. I love you C., and I am praying for you and for everyone.
Kevin,
Thanks for sharing in James’ life. I chuckled at the word “frugality” since it’s something we completely missed as gathered descriptors to use in his memorial post. However, it is a word almost as important to him as family, friends and fascination. ♥️ G
Misty Watkins
4 months ago
I had the honor to be one of James’ mentors when he was an Intern at Southwest back in the summer of 2012. I am sadden to hear this news. My heart goes out to his family!
Misty, thanks for adding your thoughts to his memorial page. Go forth and continues acts of kindness in his honor. ♥️ g
Kathleen McInnis
4 months ago
I feel so blessed and honored to have met and known James. He was so full of life..in a way that made everyone around him feel excited and joyous. My boyfriend and I used to joke that he was the true most interesting man in the world (Dos Equis man has nothing on James Sullivan). He was kind, funny and so generous with his friendship (and pool snacks). We met James and Catherine as our neighbors at Silo West, and we could both feel their authenticity as individuals and their love for life and one another right away. Catherine and James were such a beautiful representation of love and kindness. I am sending all my strength and comfort and love to Catherine and his family and friends. I know James is looking down with pride at how strong his loved ones are. May we all continue to honor him by staying hungry for life’s adventures and by sharing our love and friendship with others.
Kathleen, thanks for sharing.
Honoring James’s hunger for adventure, love and friendship will be easy to do. ♥️ g
Donna Legacy
4 months ago
My deepest heartfelt condolences to Mark and Grace and the entire Sullivan family. I am Sam’s mother-in-law and did not know James. However, if he was anything like Sam, which I am certain he was reading all the beautiful memories. He most certainly was a kind and caring, loyal soul. I wish you peace during this healing journey.
Thanks for making time to read and post on James’ page Donna ♥️ g
Jay Haywood
4 months ago
James was unlike any person we’ve ever met. Filled with an insatiable zest for life, I knew after Catherine introduced us we would be quick friends. A truly unique thing about him was that as much as he loved sharing his passions, he also had a true passion for getting to know the interests of the person he is talking to. He was always attentive, always asked questions (and who really wants to know the intricacies of data conversions or the three tier distribution system for alcohol in Alabama). I knew a phone call from James was never a five minute conversation, it would always be a minimum of thirty minutes and I would leave the call with an extra zest for life myself.
When meeting a group of our extended friends at the beach (momentarily extended friends — James had a habit I began to see of making quick, genuine connections with folks), Carri prepared everyone that they were about to meet the “human embodiment of a golden retriever.” And sure enough, 7 thirty something’s exhausted from our day jobs and driving five hours to the beach got instantly energized when James and Catherine showed up and James insisted we go to the beach that night (he also insisted on carrying all of the drinks in his cooler).
From cheering on Carri and Catherine in a race, to taking our daughter on her first flight (and probably blowing out his eardrums from her crying), to timing out leaving Birmingham to go to an almost snow-ridden Nashville with just enough time to spare so he could stay a few minutes longer to chat and finish a puzzle — the memories we are left with are fond ones of a great friend, a great son and brother, and especially of such a loving partner for Catherine.
James, you are already missed and the world is a lesser place without you. We hope all who knew him can take a little bit of your passion and enthusiasm for life into our own and pay tribute to you.
Thanks, Jay. I loved reading your memories and I share your hope about carrying forward his passion and enthusiasm for life. The “human embodiment of a golden retriever” is such a good descriptor, and you had me laughing with his intense interest in the intricacies of data conversions or the three tier distribution system for alcohol in Alabama. Thanks for that ❤️
Jay, I laugh each time that I read your post, and smile at the pictures you have shared.
I knew the story and had seen the pictures, but never in complete context from the parents in the back seat! The world is a lesser place without James, but if we all commit to do our acts of kindness, then the world will be net positive. ♥️ h
Scott Deitz
4 months ago
I had the honor and privilege to conduct James’ Captain OE at ATI. He showed up ready to go and I knew early on this was going to be easy training! He was a great pilot and an even better man. He was a fun guy to fly with and made our trip great!! I was happy that James had his career fully in check! My condolences to his fiancé, mom and dad, and the rest of his family and friends James was awesome and it truly hurts me to see such an amazing man leave this earth to soon. Rest in Peace James, thank you for being a lasting memory in my life. This pic was taken after James was signed off from Captain OE.
Thanks, Scott. I remember James talking fondly of you after that (unnecessarily) stressful moment of flying his upgrade OE (unnecessarily stressful because James over prepared for everything that mattered in his life). James was always running into good people, wherever he went and whatever he was doing. Thanks for being one of them ❤️
We spent a lot of time with the Sullivan family in Delaware when our boys were young and then visiting them in Minnesota and Seattle. Reading all these beautiful memories of James as an adult, it is obvious he remained the same caring, fun, adventurous, loving person he was many years ago. The last time we spent time with James was while the family was living in Pennsylvania, probably 20 years ago. Our son was there in a soccer tournament. James (and I believe Lukas) somehow joined the team for dinner. This team was not a group of quiet boys. But I remember watching and magically it was like James was holding court. The boys were all silent, captivated by James and whatever stories he was telling them! Obviously he was as much of a leader then as he was throughout his life.
We grieve with the rest of James’s community of friends and family for the loss of such a special person.
There are things in life that are so difficult to understand and this is certainly one of those times. Our hearts are broken.
We have always leaned on the words:
A joy shared is twice the joy; a sorrow shared is half the sorrow.
We share in the joy that James brought to all of us he touched. We share the sorrow of the man the world has lost.
Karen and Larry Knorr
Thanks for sharing, Karen. Our young families had some really nice times together in those early days. I loved your memory of James “holding court.” Yes, many of us found him to be captivating ❤️
Thanks Karen, what a nice walk down memory lane. ♥️ Butci
Caroline Taylor
4 months ago
While James was only an acquaintance through Lukas and Sam during our high school days, it always felt like he was an “everybody’s friend” type of person. The happiness, kindness, and joi de vivre he embodied was magnetic because of how genuine you knew it was.
Reading the tributes from everyone whose lives he impacted has been truly touching. Thank you all for sharing his story and all of the amazing memories and experiences you shared with him. What a life well-lived and well-loved!
I’m heartbroken and dismayed for his family, friends and loved ones. Holding you all close. ❤️
Caroline, I loved seeing you here on James’ memorial page. You’re spot on saying that James was “everybody’s friend”, perhaps there’s a message in that for all of us. Be kind ♥️ g
Sam Sullivan
4 months ago
Oh big bro, I can’t help but reflect on our childhood and remember how much I always looked up to you and the many ways you shaped who I am.
Following in your footsteps with a love for music: from starting piano lessons after you, to critiquing your recreation of Spoon’s drumlines using buckets in the garage, all the way to practicing Californication with your friends for the talent show just to have York Catholic put the hammer down on it, and even beyond as we’d talk about our latest listening habits into adulthood. Heck, you’re the only reason I still have the start of Maple Leaf Rag memorized; you were always so excited to show off lil bro’s talents to your friends.
Then there’s all of the inspiring life choices you made to chase your career and hobby, which I closely followed by chasing my own dreams. We were still both kids when you first flew me in a Cessna — such a cool experience! Your love for flying made a lot more sense to me then, and I was so proud of you for achieving your goal. Together we made goofy amounts of money in high school with our “test iPhone” websites and related FB groups, allowing me to build the computer I still have today; you also helped me practice my hobby of programming with more serious projects like Answers for Pilots. Then we were able to have such a fun weekend while you had your first experience as a young adult in Frederick while interning for the AOPA. Watching someone like you work for what they wanted, and achieve their dreams, is probably why I thought I’d be able to work for the MLB at Camden Yards when I was 13. It’s definitely why I was ready to get out of high school and into the real world. While in St. Louis, I was consistently out-of-place young and it never held me back because I knew it didn’t matter thanks to you.
That time of my life is when we got to make some of the coolest memories together, although the timeline gets a bit blurry at times. Not only did you visit the Lou countless times, but I visited you at your jobs in Detroit and Texas. I think the latter would’ve been the time you took me for a pit stop in New Orleans, thanks to your airline travel perks. You and I screamed our heads off for the Cardinals clenching a spot in the World Series and laughed our heads off watching pigeons overtake the field repeatedly in Detroit. You were always so excited to visit the Lou and talk to Steve and checkout the latest TrackBill digs. Of course you managed to make it to my 21st birthday that he and I were celebrating in Vegas. And, even more fitting, you made sure to pick up cousin Chad for the birthday bash. Whenever we’d hang out, just like childhood, we’d stay up until the wee hours playing video games, or just hanging out; unlike childhood, we never “had to” turn off the screen and hide when we heard footsteps.
I remember feeling like I was settling down quicker than you were ready to, but when Mattie came around you were so excited to be her favorite uncle. It was clear you were well on your way and even had your end game planned: flying her in a plane you built yourself. I’m so sorry that you weren’t able to get to introduce Catherine to our family, but I am looking forward to hearing any and all memories of you that she has to share from your past few years of life here on this earth. Mattie has been soaking up the family time this week, as we remember all of the special parts of you, and I can only imagine nothing would make you happier than knowing that your life could bring so many people together in love.
You always made so many friends, with so much mutual love, and were so eager to share those relationships with the other people in your life. I have countless great memories surrounded by friends of yours from all sorts of different stages of your life and parts of this country. It’s painfully obvious, reading everyone’s memories with you, how amazing you were at connecting with people in such a deep and meaningful way. Making differences in your life around every possible corner. You’ve made a lasting impact on many.
As hard as it was to hear of your passing, I found solace shortly after knowing that you were doing what you loved most. It was only fitting that you were flying to Oshkosh with a friend, a place I assume you’ve been most years over the past decade+. Seeing you and Sean with bright smiles in your final moments only confirms that you were doing what you loved most — being in the sky, where your soul always knew it needed to be. We’ll never forget you nor your positive impact that you had on us all ♥️
OMG, Sam. That’s a beautiful set of memories. “I can only imagine nothing would make you happier than knowing that your life could bring so many people together in love.” So true. And I’ll think of that every moment that we’re together with you, Kait and Mattie this week. I love you deeply, Pops ❤️
Sam, you’ve captured the essence of James in your heartfelt post. He truly was one of the best “connectors of people”, a gift that came naturally to him. It is my hope that those connections are happy reminders for me each time that I experience them. He was such a kind, accepting and gentle being.
I’m so sorry for your loss of a truly grand friend and brother. I trust that you will find peace in your heart with his silent guidance of love for all beings. ♥️ merm
Zach Ruhl
4 months ago
What can I say about our dear James that hasn’t already been expressed by so many of us who knew him and are grieving over this loss? In reading these captions – my heart is heavy but ever so thankful to have been touched by his wonderful soul and in seeing just how many lives he impacted.
I first met James in 2018 when we were in initial training at Compass Airlines. As I recall – we had rented a minivan to cart some of us around – running errands and such. I remember James renaming it “the dad van” – and the name was spot on. That was my first memory of his great sense of humor.
It’s hard to imagine most my aviation career without a memory of James at some point. When the COVID pandemic hit the industry hard, he was a great mentor to me – providing recommendations, and always staying positive that things would work out for the better. I had the opportunity to work with him on a project at Sullivair and it really kept me motivated while most of the industry was down.
Later on I was fortunate enough to join him flying the 767 at Air Transport International. Most will remember how proud we all were to see the accomplishment of his upgrade to Captain. In a twist of scheduling fate, we even flew as a crew together shortly after he upgraded.
As our career’s progressed and we moved on to our eventual “forever” aviation careers – I particularly recall trudging through the application and interview processes in tandem, and James was a great source of encouragement and support.
Indeed there were countless parties and travels together throughout the years. James loved to have fun and filled each day with the spirit of living. In 2022 I met Catherine after hearing so much about her and instantly knew how wonderful they were for each other.
A few photos to share of our memories: a 4th of July celebration in Manhattan, and a quick getaway to Hawaii prior to starting at our new companies.
To Catherine, the Sullivan & Kiser families: our deepest sympathies are with you during this time. As we grieve know that all of us are sending our love and compassion to you, and that our hearts are breaking alongside yours.
Wherever you are now James, I wish you tailwinds and the fairest skies. Ryan and I miss you terribly, and your memory fills us with hope, laughter, joy, and happiness.
Dearest Zach and Ryan, you were two really special beings in James’ short life. I appreciate reading your memories and was thrilled to see the pictures you posted, because now I can put your names with your faces. I know that James wanted Mark and I to know you both, so in true James fashion, we should find a way to get together in LA or Boston in the near future and give each other hugs. Until, and forever, go forward living your lives spreading acts of kindness, as James has taught us. ♥️ Grace
Liz Balsamo
4 months ago
In April we were blessed to meet James and Catherine via FaceTime. We met with many applicants to live in our building, but knew immediately that this beautiful couple was a match. When they finally moved here last month we immediately felt as though we’ve always known them. Dom and I loved talking to them. When sitting outside our house, I’d introduce them to all the neighbors. Everyone loved the handsome pilot and his beautiful Catherine. They adjusted to Living in Brooklyn very fast. We cross paths a few times a day and at one point, I told James that I knew more about his month than I did my own son because of our great conversations lol I told them that we were available 24/7 with anything they needed and of course that still stands true for Catherine. Our heartfelt condolences to James’ family, Catherine and family and his many friends ~ Sincerely, Liz and Dom
Dear Liz and Dom, Thank you for your kindness and compassion as we gathered in Brooklyn this week. James loved you both. I appreciate you keeping an eye on my Catherine and holding her close. 🤍
Rest assured that we will. Dom has already made friends with Newton and said he’s going up everyday even just to pet him so he won’t be lonely. We all know James is flying high leading the angels and watching over his girl. ❤️
Liz and Dom, Reading your post, I am reminded that James and Catherine are blessed with yet another set of parents that loved them so quickly and deeply.
Another deliberate “people connection” made by James.
I know that you both will continue to support our dear Catherine as she processes through her grief. I’m sure we will see a lot of you both in the upcoming months, and that warms my ♥️. G
We will be here. Ask her to share our numbers with both you and her mom. Thinking of you all ~ Liz
Tim Sullivan
4 months ago
I truly believe that James was given the passion and talent to fly so he could spread his love and joy to far flung friends and relatives. I cherish the times that James came to visit in Colorado. He found such great joy in the mountains, never mind that he never had the right footwear or other gear. He wanted to explore and learn and enjoy, from the hot springs to the ski slopes. Rides up various chair lifts with his brother and cousin and shots of Underberg were always a highlight. He never failed to make me laugh, and make me feel important since he made it seem like I was imparting great wisdom no matter if that was true. On one of his last visits here, Catherine joined him, and their love for each other shone brightly. This week Quinn and I revisited a hike we did with James on his first visit to Steamboat in 2016. It brought back such happy memories, even though then we nearly got lost hiking off trail, an experience documented in one of his YouTube videos. I know now, I will remember James and smile whenever I am out hiking, and his smile will stay with me forever.
Tim, I really like the thought that James was given the passion and talent to fly so he could spread his love and joy to far flung friends and relatives. Thanks for that, bro ❤️
Tim, you were one of James’ greatest people. He knew that you shared so many of the same loves in life. People connections, adventures, kindness, the great outdoors and learning. I look forward to viewing the YouTube that you mentioned in your post.
I’m so sorry for your loss of a true dear nephew and mentee. You were correct in thinking that you were “imparting great wisdom” upon him. He cherished your knowledge. ♥️ B
I never had a brother. I did have a sister though, and we have been inseparable since birth. Catherine has always been my best friend. You were the first boyfriend she had ever let me meet. I had an idea you were going to be special.
The first time we met, we went to Pins Mechanical with Catherine and Sydney. We probably had one too many beers, and I questioned you a lot. I didn’t know if I could trust you with my best friend. 🙂 Walking to LA Jackson with your arm around me, passing the vape back and forth (we quit vaping I promise Catherine & Sydney), and giving me multiple giant hugs. We had already become friends night one.
We weren’t very much alike James. In stature, personality (I am nowhere near as outgoing or willing to do stuff every single night like you were), and interests (I wish I could have converted you to a Titans fan). We were friends though. That’s the kind of person you were. You could be friends with anyone. No matter their background, status, age, or hobbies. I always admired that about you.
People know you as a pilot and lover of all things aircraft. I knew you as a boater. That was one hobby we both loved. Looking back at our texts, I could not believe how much we talked about boating. I noticed you saved the boating safety sheet I gave you when looking through your things this week. I thought that was really sweet. You were a captain at heart, and you wanted to be one on the water when you weren’t in the air. I love that we had that together.
When you told me you planned to ask Catherine to be married. I remember an instant feeling of happiness. Then you told me you were both moving to New York. I wasn’t too excited about that news, but hindsight I knew it was the right thing for both of you. Catherine had finally found her new best friend, and I could not be happier that she found someone that loved her as much as you.
James, I never had a brother until I met you. Words can never express how grateful I am for the way you showed Catherine how to be loved. You were special, and my sister was so lucky to have you for the time she did.
Such a sweet post Michael. I love the boater hobby 🙂 . That makes total sense to me. I’m glad Catherine has a strong best friend right now. Love to you both.
I’m so happy to hear your perspective and glad he treated your sister the way she deserved. I’m so sorry that he was taken away from her too soon, it’s not fair.
Aww, Michael. That’s the biggest compliment a young man could ever receive: to be accepted with open arms as the boyfriend and then fiance of your inseparable, and deeply loved big sister. I’ve loved getting to know you and Sydney this week. I hope you’re in our lives always. (Just another example of James bringing people together.) ❤️❤️
Dearest Michael,
Your memorial post has filled my heart more than you could imagine!
I am so happy that you trusted James with Catherine’s heart three years ago, and so sad to know the pain that she is feeling now.
I know that there’s a bigger purpose to this tragic ending of a beautiful life. Perhaps together, and with his guidance, we will get to the other side and see the true reason that James had bought us all together, I’m so thrilled to have you, Catherine and Sydney as my son and daughters through James. ♥️ G
S. Simon
4 months ago
I have never met you but was privy to hearing about the kind person you are via your brother. He spoke very highly of his brother “the pilot” and beamed with pride whenever he mentioned you. I was saddened to hear of the loss of such a great individual. Extending condolences and prayers to the entire Sullivan family and friends. May Mr. James RIP.
I met James July 15, 2019. I still have the text messages. James was my First Officer on a trip at Compass Airlines. He was humble and extremely impressive. We ended up on an adventure during our overnight which took us to a mysitcal speak easy bar that required a passwords and had themes of Alice in Wonderland.
He casually mentioned that he owned an aircraft repair company, and he was the chief mechanic! He was sending employees on trips to fix aircraft that were stranded around the United States. He looked so young, I could hardly believe it. He started his own company after his previous employer didn’t give him credit for saving the company $10’s of thousands of dollars every few months. There was some part that kept breaking, and he had a brilliant solution. I wish I could remember the details.
He also told me about his YouTube channel–which was also very impressive. It didn’t seem like James was old enough to have accomplished so much. Days didn’t seem long enough for him to have so many hobbies that he was so good at so quickly.
He was such a nice guy. I called him out of the blue when Covid hit. We talked for over an hour.
Everything about James was impressive. It’s heartbreaking that the world lost such an incredible person so young.
Matt,
Thanks for sharing your memories and friendship with dear James.
I always like to put a name with a face, so if you have a pic of you two, or were featured in a VLOG, please consider uploading it for me. ♥️ G
I’m pretty sure I first stumbled across his videos July this year. I was not even aware he had passed away until today like a few minutes ago. I was overly obsessed with repeatedly watching his videos on working with the Super Cubs at the Van Wagner hangar at Compton Airport. I did not even know James in person or that well, but he was an inspiring figure to me. I am only 13 and already have a passion for becoming a banner pilot and watching his videos at Van Wagner boosted that long term goal. Every time I go to the Van Wagner hangar in Compton, all I could even think about is how he was once fixing the super cubs in the hangar. He was taken much too soon, but the bright side is that he did not suffer in his untimely passing. My deepest condolences to everyone one of his friends, and family.
Thank you, Matthew, for sharing those thoughts and feelings. I hope you reach your goal of becoming a banner pilot. James loved hooking banners, and he believed strongly in setting goals and reaching for them. Your enthusiasm reminds me of him ❤️
Thank you, and I really wish I could’ve had a long good, meaningful conversation with him about banner towing.
Matthew,
I’m really sorry to hear about James’s passing. It’s incredible how someone we’ve never met can have such a profound impact on our lives. It’s clear that his passion for aviation inspired you, and it’s amazing to see how his work has fueled your own dreams of becoming a banner pilot. Your visits to the Van Wagner hangar must feel special, knowing the connection you have to him and the legacy he left behind. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, and I’m sure James would be proud to know he inspired you. My condolences go out to his family and friends as well. I wish I would have had the opportunity to know James. Matthew, if you would like to further fuel your passion for aviation, and would like to talk “aviation”, please feel free to reach out to me . . . no pressure.
Yes, it really is a very upsetting set of circumstances and every visit to the hangar is a very cherished moment; And I will be sure to ever reach out to you in the near future about aviation.
Matthew and Fern,
Thanks for sharing ur passion for flying and ur sentiments of James on his memory board. As James’ mom, my heart is warmed knowing how many lives he touched. Aviation was his world and I believe he continues to soar above and around us all. Follow ur dreams. ♥️ g
I found James through his aircraft maintenance videos on youtube, which inspired me to get in to the maintenance side of the industry. I emailed him to tell him my story and how his videos helped me and I followed in his footsteps, all the way to getting my Pilatus type rating last year. We exchanged numbers and we chatted about the videos and maintenance, as well as his new job. I promised to buy him a beer if he was ever in my part of Europe on a layover. I’m shocked to read that he’s no longer with us. He seemed like a genuinely great guy and I was looking forward to meeting him one day.
My deepest condolences to all his friends and family.
Tom, thanks for sharing that. James would have loved to join you in Europe for that beer, and you can be assured that he would have done that were he still alive. Please raise a beer in his memory. And congrats on your Pilatus rating.
Kindly, Mark (James’s Dad) ❤️
Tom, he truly was a “genuinely great guy”. I’m glad ur paths crossed in his short life. Thanks for posting. ♥️ Grace
I knew James from interning with him and working at Williams in Michigan. Although we both left Michigan and the job, we kept in touch over texts/calls for the last 10 years and would see each other once every year or so. Sometimes longer gaps because life. Unfortunately, I just found out about James’s passing today since I don’t have any other friends that are close with him from that Michigan job. I had texted him shortly after he passed but just assumed he had a busy period at work as he often did. Still feels surreal at this point but feel like I need to say something now given my lateness.
I’m sure I’ll be repeating other people’s sentiments at this point but James was just an excellent friend and just awesome to observe when it came to his passions and drives in life.
I loved that he always was excited to see me. And that he always had a plan to spice up the day or keep us moving to experience more on our meetups. I got a lot of friends where we visit each other and watch TV all day. Which ain’t the worst thing in the world but variety is the spice of life. And James definitely understood that.
I loved his generosity and how he was always down to share his space or host for a weekend. Hell, I think I’ve crashed at James’s when he wasn’t even in town.
I loved how easily he could get a rapport rolling when I introduced him to one of my friends. A lot of my friends who have met him just once or twice ask me how that guy James has been. And I could be proud to tell them his latest career accomplishment or big move or adventurous trip.
I loved his focus and concern on maintaining his family/friend relationships even when things got rocky. You could tell he really gave a shit and was actually stressed himself when things weren’t going well with someone close to him.
I loved listening to his wry and interesting observations/explanations of the aviation industry. There’s too many anecdotes and fun facts to count that I would retell from ‘my pilot friend’ to my friends/family. And I ways always impressed with his well-earned rise through his career. I wish I had that passion and drive myself.
I live in Colorado now and have only met Lukas and Uncle Tim, but much love and hugs to the Sullivan family and to his closest friends. I’ve heard a lot about you guys and hope you’ve been able to come together to carry this heavy ass weight.
Dear Matthew, that was a lovely post. Thanks for remembering James and loving him like that. It warms our hearts that you have these memories. Please reach out to me at sully2759@gmail.com. I’m hoping our Paris will cross someday ❤️
Glad I could provide a little warmth and will do.
After a night of sleep, realized I have also briefly met his cousins Drew and Emily too. And that I completely forgot to extend my sentiments to Catherine and anyone in her family close to James. Sorry about that. Unsure she would remember me but met her at least once for a Red Rocks show in Nov 22.
Thanks Matthew. Your shared memories warm
my heart. We miss him dearly. Grace
Catherine, Butci, Mark and family,
After recently hearing from my niece Danielle about James’ passing I have spent the past several days reading, rereading and absorbing all the beautiful memories on the board. I am deeply touched by the loving stories, poetry, thoughts about a special young man. My little story is silly and sweet.
The first time I met the four brothers James was about 10 years old.My mother Ann Hope (Sullivan) who was their great-aunt had told me that all the boys were very active, fun, funny and nice but James, James
was so thoughtful and kind to her. While I was visiting that time I kept misplacing my much needed special side shield sunglasses which the boys would help me find each time. Not too long after that when I saw the family again young James casually gave me a handwoven strap he had made so maybe I would not keep losing track of my glasses! I still have it decades later.
My heart goes out to all those who knew and loved James, he will always be remembered! Fondly, Juliane
Oh, Juliane, that’s such a lovely memory you shared. Thank you for bringing us a moment of joy.
With love and hugs, Mark ❤️
Dearest Julianne,
I remember that visit and love that you shared the memory. We miss his kindness and trust that he has met up with dear Ann in the heavens above. ♥️ Butci
NBAA Maintenance Committee Honors Former Member James Sullivan
Washington, DC, Sept. 5, 2024 – The National Business Aviation Association (NBAA) Maintenance Committee, at its recent meeting in Washington, DC, announced the renaming of its scholarship travel fund to the James Sullivan Travel Fund, in honor of the former committee member and past award recipient who passed away unexpectedly this summer. Sullivan was 32.
The fund offsets travel and lodging costs for AMT Maintenance Scholarship winners. Each year more than two dozen training courses are awarded to students and professionals interested in aircraft, engine, and avionics maintenance training.
A pilot since 16, Sullivan was a 2014 Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University graduate, held an Airframe & Powerplant Certificate with Inspectors Authorization and was a multi-rated air transport pilot. Sullivan had an extensive career as a pilot, technician and business owner. Most recently, he was a 757/767 first officer for Delta Airlines while operating his own company, SullivAir, LLC, a contract maintenance and management services provider for operators in the Los Angeles area.
With everything that Sullivan was involved in, he never forgot the impact being a two-time award recipient of the NBAA AMT Maintenance Scholarship had on him and his career. He paid that forward as an active committee volunteer who consistently shared his passion and advocacy, the committee said.
Longtime committee member and former chair Jim Huntoon said he was honored to be one of Sullivan’s mentors while a student at ERAU and as he started his career.
“From the first time I met James in 2011, he stood out. He came up after a scholarship presentation and started asking questions,” Huntoon said. “James’s energy for everything was apparent, and he impressed me as I watched him grow personally, professionally, and as a leader. He had an amazing wit, and his smile was contagious.”
As part of the Maintenance Committee, Sullivan was a co-chair of the Workforce Development (WFD) Committee Secondary Education Subcommittee.
“James was more than all his accolades in aviation, and he had bounties of them. The ones that meant the most were his personal connections with others. How he touched people’s hearts with his kindness, generosity, and willingness to show up and be present,” said subcommittee co-chair Melissa Raddatz.
WFD Subcommittee Chair Bryan Maloney said he knew instantly that Sullivan would be an excellent addition to the group. “I could tell early on that James was passionate about business aviation, and his involvement could be infectious,” Maloney said. “His passion was evident, and I truly enjoyed his commitment, involvement, and contribution. He made a lasting impression on me and will truly be missed.”
Huntoon added: “James was one of a kind, and his life and career impacting all of those who had the privilege of knowing him, and he will never be forgotten. James is soaring above all of us, and it is an honor to carry his memory and spirit forward with the NBAA James Sullivan Travel Fund, so others can grow and soar as he did.”
Thanks to NBAA and Jim Huntoon for this wonderful tribute ❤️
Anthology of Gratitude
I’m grateful for having known, loved and been loved by James for 32 years. As I mingled with so many wonderful friends and relatives of James and Sean during their Celebrations of Life, it occurred to me how lucky each of us were to have known those two, very special young men.
I’ve had some sleepless hours over the past 40 nights, during which I wrote a few poems to clear my head. I’m not a poet (I’d never before written poetry) and they don’t conform to any rules of rhyme or cadence. Each was written as a stream of consciousness. I’m sharing them only because it feels good to do so. Thanks for indulging me…
Wings
Take flight, my lovely son
And soar
Reach for those dreams you’ve always held,
And soar
Be without worry, for we hold dear the time we spent with you
May our memories of your kindness give you lift, make you light on the wind,
And soar
Soar my lovely son, for yours was a life well lived and you leave us with no regrets
Only joy ❤️
Hereafter
Not real, if real is that which we understand
Not real, if real is that which can be explained
Beyond our capacity to embrace or dissect
Beyond our will to endure, to accept
Yet real. When we feel empty, it’s real
When we feel a swift longing, it’s real
When we love you with our whole being and live our lives better because you lived among us, it’s real.
Always and forever ❤️
Footprints
Life lived well, lived full
Too short, still unfolding, ceased midstream
Did you realize your many dreams?
Some in full and others in the fullness of your plans
Did you accomplish your goals?
To be kind, to be loving, to be loved
Do you know we’re going to be OK?
Aching for your presence but joyful in your memories
Better for the time we spent with you
Too short, so sweet, never forgotten
Love always ❤️
Dreaming
You’re smiling brightly as I speak
You remember what’s important to me;
you ask about that and more
You give me a hug and tell me you love me; of course I already knew that
You share your plans with me: days filled with old friends and new acquaintances
And then your gone, only this time you won’t be coming back
I try to return to this dream, but I can’t
I’m left with your love and a deep longing for your smile
Godspeed, my son, take flight and be free ❤️
An Enormous Loss
Such an enormous loss to the world, to all who knew him, to me.
He went out of his way to make me happy.
Not once; always.
Not because I’m Dad; because he’s James.
Not just me, but everyone.
And I was happy.
He looked into my eyes and smiled.
Not once; always.
Not because I’m Dad; because he’s James.
Not just me, but everyone.
And my spirits were lifted.
He listened to my every word with rapt attention, with genuine interest.
Not once; always.
Not because I’m Dad; because he’s James.
Not just me, but everyone.
And I thought I was talking with him about his favorite topic.
He asked me for advice and counsel; he bounced his ideas off me.
Not once; always.
Not because I’m Dad; because he’s James.
Not just me, but everyone.
And I felt valued.
He shared his hope, his dreams and his plans with me.
Not once; always.
Not because I’m Dad; because he’s James.
Not just me, but everyone.
And I shared his dreams.
Such an enormous loss to the world, to all who knew him; to me.
I thought I was his best friend. I am.
You thought you were his best friend. You are.
We miss you, James, and we feel a deep sense of loss.
We remember you James, and we feel a resounding happiness for the moments we shared with you.
Rest in peace, James. Your work on earth is done, and done well ❤️
On Sorrow
It’s not easy to lose a beautiful child, whom you’ve watched unfold since birth and blossom into an amazing young adult,
It’s not easy to lose your loving companion and life partner, with whom you’ve shared every hope, every dream and every plan for your future,
It’s not easy to lose your wonderful brother, with whom you’ve shared every moment of your childhood and much of your adulthood,
And it’s not easy to lose a devoted friend, a joyous cousin, an attentive uncle, or a nephew who’s always been in your orbit.
No, it’s not easy. But this is our burden to shoulder.
It’s up to each of us to remember the joy that James brought into our lives. Our joy: that was James’s gift to each of us.
It’s up to each of us to give forward the kindness that James brought into this world. Be kind, always: this was James’s lesson to each of us.
Rest in peace, James. Your work on earth is done, and done well ❤️
Mark, thank you for so beautifully putting into words what many of us are feeling. Annie
So agree. Thanks Mark, beautiful poems. DJ
I wanted to reach out and share how much James meant to me, even though we never met in person. I started watching his videos on YouTube long before I began A&P school, and I can confidently say that I’ve seen every one of them.
His passion for aviation and his incredible knowledge were captivating, and he was one of the key influences that inspired me to pursue a career in this field.
I remember following his journey on YouTube and LinkedIn and feeling so thrilled when I found that he had become a pilot for Delta. It was incredible to see how far he had come in his career.
Today, when I checked for new content, I was devastated to learn of his passing. James was a role model to me. Please know that his legacy will live on in the many people he inspired, including myself.
My deepest condolences to you and your family during this incredibly difficult time. James will be deeply missed and fondly remembered by all who were fortunate enough to be touched by his life and work.
With sincere sympathy,
Angel Ramirez
Angel, thanks for taking the time to share your connection to our dear son James. Our hearts are full knowing that he touched so many people in his short stay here on earth. We are all blessed for having known such a great being. Peace to you. Grace
Dear family and friends of James,
Several of you have asked if there would be some kind of memorial fund that you might choose to contribute to. I’m writing to let you know that we’re speaking with several of the non-profit aviation organizations that James has been involved with over the years about doing something with them in his memory and honor. If and when we’re able to pull this together, I’ll post again and ask that you spread the word.
With love, Mark ❤️
Mark & Family: I was very saddened to learn today from Marianne about the passing of your son James. I enjoyed reading the story here about Jame’s full and adventurous life and seeing his beautiful smile. I can’t imagine the loss you all must be feeling. I have learned over the years that those we love who are gone remain paramount in our lives. May your love of James and the love of family sustain you all. Kindly, SUSAN
Susan, thanks so much for reaching out. I love the thought that those we love who are gone remain paramount in our lives, and our love of James will indeed sustain us. Love and hugs, cousin Mark❤️
I remember watching James’ videos on YouTube about working at SurfAir while I was researching going to A&P school in 2016. The fun he had doing the work with his friends and his attitude made me want to pursue being an A&P. Fast forward a few years later and I ran into him at the NBAA maintenance conference in Dallas. He was so friendly and shared his number with me if I needed any help during those early days as an A&P. Godspeed James, you will sorely be missed.
Thanks Imran. ♥️
Thanks for sharing that, Imran ❤️
While I only knew James for about 18 months, the expression, “First impressions are lasting impressions”, certainly applied to James in such a positive way, when I first met him. His smile and friendly disposition was so contagious.
James and I quickly formed a bond because of our love for flying/aviation. We especially had in common our love for the airline we had both always wanted to spend the rest of our careers as pilots.
I was deeply saddened when I heard of James’ death. Even though I had only known him for about 18 months, it felt like we had been friends for a long time, and I wish we could have had many more years to nurture the friendship we began 18 months ago.
Catherine, Mark and Grace, along with your sons/family, are in my thoughts and prayers during this season of grief, losing such a wonderful person. James will be greatly missed.
Todd,
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on James’ memory board. I agree that he was the master of “first impressions”. I believe it was because he genuinely cared about people, and wanted to know what they were passionate about in their lives.
What a gift he was to this planet. He will be missed, but he has taught me how to be a better person. With kindness, Grace
Thanks, Todd ❤️
We had heard rumors that our Granddaughter Catherine was smitten with a new acquaintance. This made us happy since she had been very selective about her personal relationships. Daughter-in-law Sydney kept us informed surreptitiously but we never heard about him directly from Catherine until she was ready for the unveiling.
We remember the first time we met the Mystery Man we very properly extended our hands for a shake but these were rebuffed and we were enveloped in a warm hug by those wonderful long arms. We very quickly became great fans of Catherine’s choice of this young man. We could tell he was something special and over the ensuing months we could see her happiness grow in a way we had never seen.
James had a unique ability to make those of us who were on the sidelines feel as if we were in the game with him. Whether it was a text to ask if he could come by for a visit when he was in the neighborhood; send a video of a plane decked out for a pro team; videos of landings at various airports; bringing by a Delta ball cap; bringing with Catherine a wonderful meal they had prepared together; and always interested in what we were doing and downplaying the exciting life of a commercial pilot he was doing.
Our hearts are broken for our Catherine and for Grace and Mark and for the entire family.
But we are blessed to have known James Sullivan.
Love,
Nancy and Barclay Cox
Dear Nancy and Barclay, this is such a lovely and loving post. James was, in turn, blessed to have known you both.
With love and hugs, Mark ❤️❤️
Dearest Nancy and Barclay,
It was so nice to spend time with you this weekend in Nashville. Sydney and Michael created a beautiful celebration of James’ life, and our hearts were filled with all of the stories people shared. He was a grand young man, gone too soon, but leaving us all richer for him having connected our families. ♥️ grace
Our time kayaking in Baja with the Sullivan family and Auntie Kaya was incredibly special. It was so easy to get along with the entire family but James was especially outgoing, inquisitive and easy to connect with.
One of the outings that we did as a group was a snorkeling expedition to a sea lion colony. Even though the water was chilly and choppy, we had some special encounters with some of the younger sea lions as they were also outgoing and inquisitive themselves. The way they danced through the water gracefully and effortlessly, I’m sure James shared a similar joy with his mastery of flight.
The Meeker family sends an enormous hug to Catherine and the Sullivans, our hearts go out to you all and James’ rich and extended family that he created over the years throughout all of his impressive pursuits and passions.
Love,
Jenn, Bill, Alex, Meredith and David
Special, indeed, Alex and family. Thanks for sharing those memories and photos ❤️
Hugs back to the Meeker family ❤️
Ahhhhh Jenn. It’s so nice to hear from you and see your pictures. Our families, plus auntie Kaya was a magical gathering with so many great memories.
I trust that you and your family are doing well. Please consider popping in, if you ever find yourselves in the Boston area. ♥️
❤️
Many years ago James had a YouTube channel detailing airplane maintenance that I took a following to and kept up with his uploads as at the time I was working in aviation maintenance. After a few years of following James he stopped uploading and I occasionally wondered why he stopped uploading videos. When I saw the class roster I saw James Sullivan so my curiosity took over wondering if it would be him. As fate would have it 7 or 8 years later I walked into the hotel lobby to start to grab breakfast before indoctrination at Delta, I went for a cup of coffee and James was the first person I saw. I approached him and said “Is that you James, from YouTube?” He kinda chucked and said,” that’s me! His personality was infectious and after a few minutes of small talk it felt like long lost friends as we had so much in common. Myself and the entire indoc class had an amazing time going through training together with James as he was always so upbeat, funny, and most of all extremely kind to all that he met. The night of our wing ceremony was absolutely incredible, we all were celebrating a massive milestone with our loved ones and class mate. My now fiancé, Hannah and I were honored to spend some time that night with Catherine and James enjoying a few drinks and their presence that night.
After our fleet training, while James as based in Atlanta we would often walk the terminal before our trips start just talking about our future goals and just about life. James was a sharp dude but he never took himself too seriously, I think that’s something I learned from James, and I will continue to practice going forward in life. While our time knowing each other was short, it was a pleasure and an honor to know James.
Thanks, Bradley. Please remember him from time to time when you fly for Delta. It was his dream to retire from Delta some day ❤️
Bradley, It was such a pleasure meeting you and Hannah this weekend in Nashville. Your stories of James warm my heart and I’m so happy that your paths crossed in his short time here on this earth. I agree 💯 that we shouldn’t take ourselves too seriously. 💕 Grace
James,
It was an honor and privilege to be co-chair with you on the NBAA Workforce Development subcommittee for the secondary education group! I thoroughly enjoyed our conversations and the braining storming we did to share the good news of business aviation which was really us sharing our love of aviation with others.
I will always remember your kind soul, giving heart and impeccable character and grace. You are one of the best of the best and it shows in all those whom you left a little better than you found them.
I leave you with one of my favorite poems…
High Flight
Oh! I have slipped the surly bonds of Earth
And danced the skies on laughter-silvered wings;
Sunward I’ve climbed, and joined the tumbling mirth
of sun-split clouds,-and done a hundred things
You have not dreamed of-wheeled and soared and swung
High in the sunlit silence. Hov’ring there,
I’ve chased the shouting wind along, and flung
My eager craft through footless halls of air….
Up, up the long, delirious, burning blue
I’ve topped the wind-swept heights with easy grace
Where never lark nor ever eagle flew-
And, while with silent lifting mind I’ve trod
The high untrespassed sanctity of space,
Put out my hand, and touched the face of God
Written by John G. Magee
Godspeed, Mel
Mel, Thanks for your kind words. James really enjoyed being part of the NBAA workforce development team. He will truly be missed by so many. Peace to you and the team. ♥️ Grace
Mel, I love the team photo of you and James. He loved working with you and NBAA ❤️
James and I became friends while working at HHR. He was a phenomenal person because he had a genuine, caring, warm hearted spirit. I’m blessed to have known him and call him my friend. He’s touched so many lives that his memory will forever be cherished.
Funny story: One day James was filming one of his many blogs, him and Vince completely caught me off guard so as I was attempting to block my face, James was trying to assure me that I looked ok and that he wouldn’t post it. Then he whispered to the camera that he was gonna post it and did (it was a funny moment) Blog is in the link below
His blogs were funny and educational because he spoke from the heart when it came to aviation. He had so much passion and drive that it inspired others around him, including myself.
My heart goes out to the entire family
May he forever rest in peace.
Kimmy, Thank you for posting and sharing your memories of James. I laughed at knowing that you are an unconsenting star in one of his VLOGs. I didn’t see the link attached in your post. If you read this, please post it so I can watch it. ♥️ Grace, James’ adoring mom
Thanks, Kimmy. I love that you were inspired by James’ passion and drive ❤️
I spent only the better part of one week with James and his family, but he was a big part of a group of people who saved my life. It’s a hard story for me to tell now, one I’ve only shared with a couple people, but I want to share it with Catherine, and maybe Lukas and Kevin, too. I showed up in Baja California after Christmas ten years ago in bad shape. I’d had lost my grandma, lost my dog, and had a couple recent romantic disappointments after a lifetime of them on top of that. Christmastime put a big spotlight on all that was missing. It felt as if there was no love , warmth, or kindness for me in the world. On Christmas Eve that year, I struggled to stay on the planet, but figured I had already paid for this trip and maybe some sunlight would help my brain, so I should take it before making any final decisions. I thought that on this trip, there would be other single people who felt disenfranchised from their families and the culture at Christmastime and I wouldn’t feel so alone, but instead I found myself on a sea kayaking trip with two large families, each with three college-aged kids. I was horrified, certain that it would be another week of being an outsider. I woke up in my tent on the island that first morning and cried. Since it was windy, we hiked up to the tallest point on the island–a place high on a cliff overlooking the sea. As I peeked over the edge, I had a strong urge to jump, but I didn’t want to ruin other people’s trip, so I made myself back away and sit down. I really struggled through that day and didn’t know how I would make it through the week. And then, that night, James got out Cards Against Humanity, and he and Lukas taught all of us to play. It was my turning point. James made me laugh until I cried. We all did. It ended up being one of my favorite nights of my life. I couldn’t believe how fast a day could turn around. As the week went on, James and these two families kept me laughing and made me feel as if they had adopted me. At the end of our goodbye dinner, the kids from the other family group hugged me and called me Auntie Kaya, and then with his typical silly joy, James initiated the three of them running over to me, squealing “Auntie Kaya!” and group hugged me too. It filled me up with enough joy and love that I could go back to my cold and empty life and endure it long enough to change it. I really credit these two families and their love and light as well as the caring kayak guides with saving my life. The love and joy James radiated made a difference in this world, a lasting impact, even to those of us who were only lucky enough to spend a week with him. He was so funny, so smart, and had such a big heart. I’ve always hoped that my path would cross with his again someday. Love, gratitude, and infinite compassion to the Sullivan Family, Catherine, and all who loved him. What an exquisite soul.
Dearest Kaya,
Thanks for sharing your memories and your personal story from a very difficult time in your life. We truly did adopt you that week as “one of ours”.
I’m so happy that you decided to stay on this planet and give this world, and its people another chance. James was always a master at reading people and knowing just who needed him to share his kindness. I’ve dug up some pics from that trip and am so happy to have been reminded of the laughs we shared that week, ten years ago. With Love, your family in Boston. ♥️
Kaya, I’m so glad you wrote in and shared that moving story. I remember those days on the water off Baja fondly. But, unlike James, I was unaware that you were struggling at that time. I hope that you are well, always ❤️
Here are a few pictures of the time James was with us and the Comparin family. It has been a great joyful experience
My memories go back to those times and even before to Saint Paul,MN, when I first met the four kids for an unforgettable dinner.
I’ll keep James’ bright eyes and clever endearing smile in my heart.
Dearest Alberto,
Thank you for sharing your memories and all of the pictures from your adventures. The Silva and Comparin families hold special places in all of our hearts. You would not be surprised by the lovely woman James chose to marry, she is a kindred spirit with a similarly light heart and we feel blessed that he brought her into our family. It is our hope one day to bring Catherine on a grand tour of Italy to meet James’ extended family. Until we see you all, please live life well, as James did, and spread joy and kindness often. ♥️ Butci
Dearest Alberto, thanks for posting those wonderful photos. James loved his four Italian sisters, and each of them brought him joy. And they continue to bring us joy.
I, too, will keep James’ bright eyes and clever endearing smile in my heart forever ❤️
My memories go back to those times and even before to Saint Paul,MN, when I first met the four kids for an unforgettable dinner.
I’ll keep James’ bright eyes and clever endearing smile in my heart.
It has taken a week for me to be able to type this. I met James as a young man at Embry-Riddle in 2011 and it was clear from my first introduction he was a special young man. I was providing a scholarship presentation for NBAA AMT scholarships and James came up after the meeting and started asking questions. From that first meeting I found a fellow aviator that had the passion that drove me to ERAU and into the business aviation world. Over the next few years we shared a lot of great times, and he went on to receive two NBAA AMT scholarships and I helped him, and others manage the NBAA club at ERAU. After James graduated, I was very proud of watching him grow and continue to always look for ways to improve himself. He even joined me at a Nascar race in Michigan and that was a fun crazy weekend. When he was at a crossroads between flying with Surf Air and looking at a business aviation opportunity and a Flying opportunity he reached out and asked for advice and input and I was happy to connect him with several Chief Pilots who all said, “Go get Jet Time”. Over many years James continued to help us with the NBAA Maintenance Committee, and I always looked forward to him joining us and spending time with him. In June James reached out as we had a NBAA event in NY and we arranged for him to come to the show and had a chance to get caught up and again I just always smile when I see him and hear about what he was doing.
He was a passionate aviator, who loved his fiancée, his family and his friends. I have been blessed to help a lot of students over the years and even more blessed to have the chance to know James as he was just an amazing human being in every sense of the word. I am truly lucky to have been able to be one of his Mentors at ERAU and after. God brought home another angel with James. I will miss my friend, his wit, his smile and his amazing energy for life.
I pray for his Fiancée, Mom, Dad and siblings and all those we are also morning for the loss of such an amazing person.
God bless all of you and may his grace be with you in the days and years to come.
Dear Jim,
Thanks for sharing you memories and interactions with James. He spoke of you often and admired your wisdom and mentoring. You were a big part of why he wanted to serve as a mentor to others. Peace to you. Grace
Grace & Mark,
I was honored to know him and see him grow in every way. You raised an amazing son and I told him more than once he needed thank his parents for having amazing parents and helping him become the person he was. I am the former Chairman of the NBAA Maintenance Committee and we would like to discuss something we would like to do to honor James if you find time in the next couple of weeks please reach out to me.
God bless your entire family.
Jim 386-736-3379
Thanks, Jim. James always respected you and thrived under your mentorship. He spoke of you often ❤️
I met James only one time at a beer event I ran with his cousin, Luis. He and his partner explained to me their move to NYC and how much it meant to them. We discussed his interest in flying and what his job was like. He was so happy and so passionate about his new endeavor. I give my whole heart to him and his family.
Thanks Jeremy. ♥️ G
I first met James when we did a Procter and Gamble student development program at their corporate flight department in Cincinnati. It was a one week program showing aviation students what the corporate aviation life was like. I was initially intimidated by James’ impressive resume and his background in mechanics- the other three interns were but lowly pilots. However, that feeling quickly dissipated once I got to know James. He was kind, humble, and easy to get along with. We lost touch after that internship, but saw each other again at LAX a few years later. I was flying for SkyWest and he was flying a PC12 at the time. We recognized each others faces and it room a few seconds for us to both remember how we knew each other but I still remember it making my day running into him. I was in the middle of a tough work trip and seeing him and his positive demeanor was exactly what I needed. Fast forward almost 7 years and I ran into James in the ATL pilot crew room. I was so happy to see that he made it to Delta and to learn that he was on the same fleet as I. I congratulated him on making it to Delta and, having just upgraded to captain myself, told him I hoped that we could fly a trip together soon. That trip will have to be for another lifetime. Much love, James.
Photo is at the P&G internship. Myself on the bottom, Newman at the top who is also a Delta 757/767 first officer now.
Dear Yann,
I enjoyed reading your post and always appreciate a picture from the business side of James’ life. I’m so happy that you pushed past your initial “intimidation” to get to know the true “kind, humble and easy to get along with” James.
♥️ Grace (James’ mom)
Thanks, Yann, for sharing that story. We’ll always remember James as kind, humble, and easy to get along with. Loved the P&G photo ❤️
The first time we met the 4 Sullivan brothers in Minnesota was in 1999. With Bianca we had arrived in the US the night before but the children were already asleep. Early in the morning we heard little feet walking outside the door and James and Kevin appeared, probably curious to meet these two girls arriving from Italy.
Going through pictures of this summer together and the ones that followed in Seattle and Maine, brought me back to the many many many adventures we had together: camping, baseball games, swimming in the lake, introducing us to smores… I found a picture of a walk just Mark and James (and Rusty) and the two of us. I don’t remember the name of the place (Widbey island, maybe?) but I remember how we enjoyed the beautiful nature we were in. We really loved having 4 little brothers on the other side of the ocean!
I have not had the pleasure to meet James as an adult, but reading all your stories here I see he was a beautiful person and a generous soul.
A big hug to the whole family and Catherine.
James, you’ll stay in our hearts.
Paola, Thanks for sharing your old pictures and memories. I know that you would have found the adult version of James to be even greater, kinder and more generous, than the young boy that you played frog juice with and spent summers bouncing around together. Hug and love to you and yours. ♥️ B
Thanks, Paola. I loved the photos you shared and your memories of those wonderful times we had together. I wish we were not so far apart from each other ❤️
I am so saddened to have lost my sweet, sweet nephew, but feel so fortunate to have had him in our family and in my world. He showed us that the joys in life are boundless, and so easily in reach when we simply connect with those around us by sharing a little bit of love, kindness and curiosity.
From the time he was a toddler, that little guy was a bundle of immense energy. I remember sitting on the rug with him (age 2?) and playing planes, trains and automobiles – with such focus on the task at hand. More recently, he would stop by to visit me on his east coast swings having researched a full slate of local comedy clubs, trendy restaurants, dive bars, and concerts in the park to test out on his 8 hour stay.
I think James perhaps understood the world better than the rest of us. Soaring above the endless forests, golden sunsets, and expansive oceans must have deeply touched him, he loved it so much. It certainly gave him a unique perspective on how much beauty and good is around us, and how fortunate we are all. When he touched back on the ground, he wanted to do it all and grab life by the horns. And he did. With a big grin. He was so on top of this world with happiness when I last saw him, having found Catherine (who could keep up with him!) and launching a new adventure together.
Losing James will forever leave a pain in our hearts. But I am ever so thankful that he gave us a window seat with a view of all that is good and fun in this world. I hope to honor his memory by taking a little bit of that with me every day.
Aunt Annie
Dearest Annie,
Thanks for sharing the love that you had for James. You were like a mother to him, but better, because you had no expectations, just unending love, awe and appreciation. He was able to be his true self in your presence. That was a gift that the two of you shared. ♥️
So sweet, Annie, thanks. I also think James understood the world better than the rest of us, perhaps because he always looked at the world through the eyes of others. Such a gift he had for people, and such a gift we was to us ❤️
On Monday, July 29th, one week from his passing, a few of us gathered on the isthmus at Grand Lake, CO, to memorialize our beloved James. Mom, Dad, Catherine and her brother Michael, James’s brothers, and Uncle Tim (representing our extended family) joined hands in this lovely setting (pictured below), and offered the following prayer to James in the heavens.
Our dearest James, whom we loved so so much, from the moment we met you and without pause throughout your all-too-short time here on earth, and forever more, we wish you Godspeed on your final flight. It’s our hope that the wings you earned at such a young age, and that you cherished at all times, will help you soar into the heavens where we’ll one day meet up with you again. We also hope that you continue to fly over us often, because we feel your loving presence whenever you do so.
We’re surrounded by love and family and more friends of yours than one could imagine. And we’re going to be OK. We miss you immensely, yet we’re engulfed in the memories of countless people whom you’ve touched in lasting ways. We’ve learned from their stories this past week. We’ve learned to be more joyful and more passionate; we’ve learned to put people first in our lives and to share in their interests and passions; and we’ve learned to do simple acts of kindness for others, often and always. We’ve lost you, James, but you’ve left us behind in a world that’s a far better place because of you.
You’ve also left us with an extraordinary gift: the combining of two loving families. We Sullivans have gained Catherine as a daughter, sister, niece and aunt, and Michael as a brother, and all of the Kisers as our newly extended family. And we know that Catherine, Michael, Sydney, Kelly, Kevin R, Tim K, Nancy and Barclay feel the same about us Sullivans. Thank you for that; it’s truly a blessing for us all.
Godspeed, James. You’ll remain in our hearts forever, and our deep love for you abides, Amen.
This was our family’s way of memorializing James. We’ll organize a Celebration of Life on both the East and West coasts within the next few months. We ask that you memorialize James in your own way before this, so we can come together in joy and not sorrow.
In our loving embrace, Mom, Dad, Kevin S, Lukas, Sam, Kait, Mattie, Catherine, Michael and the extended Kiser family, and Uncle Tim and the extended Sullivan family
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What a beautiful and fitting place to remember James. A peaceful location with endless blue sky and surrounded by those who he loved most.
Thanks for sharing with us all. I love the pictures and the airplane in the clouds. His presence is warming.
I was walking through Logan at sunrise yesterday when a huge Delta jet taxied in, bathed in a golden morning glow. The light from it poured into the walkway so brightly a few of us stopped and stared.
Vermont, 1996-ish. I woke very early and came inside to make coffee. James, Kevin and Lukas were already dressed (maybe in cute little Tyrolean boots?) and coloring peacefully at the dining room table. I sat down and asked what they were up to.
“We’re working quietly so Mom and Dad can sleep,” James said.
Washington 2005-ish. I was lucky to take a couple of wonderful and gnarly hikes with James and his mom. I can picture his wiry little legs, powering along cheerfully in front of me—without a single gripe. He was intrepid.
Oregon 2018-ish. James was flying a client to Oregon from California for a hunting trip near where I lived. He made the connection and all the arrangements to meet up and was the greatest dinner companion, asking insightful questions, telling stories about his clients, and describing what it was like to fly over different parts of the West. We sat for a couple hours, then some friends of mine came in—one of them a pilot, too—and the night went on even longer. I drove away from the restaurant that night so enlightened and inspired by him. Filled up with possibility and laughter and respect for how he lived his life.
I saw one of those friends 3 weeks ago and she asked about James and mentioned how struck she’d been by his ease with a tableful of middle-aged strangers.
He not only lit up a room, he shifted that room, leaving something indelible and unforgettable behind.
Sending love to Mark, Grace, Catherine, Kevin, Sam, and Lukas and to James’ tribe of friends, cousins, and colleagues as you grieve the immeasurable loss of such a pure and beautiful soul.
Madeline, I love your timeline of memories, and couldn’t agree more with
the way that “He not only lit up a room, he shifted that room, leaving something indelible and unforgettable behind”.
Thanks for sharing his life and memories with us.
♥️ B
Oh Madeline, I love hearing those memories. “We’re working quietly so Mom and Dad can sleep” captures so much of James: he was always doing things for someone else’s benefit. I, too, am filled up with possibility and laughter and respect for how he lived his life. I feel that way about you, as well ❤️
Our condolences to all the Family and Friends! Beautiful, loving memory board ❤️ 😢 ~ 🪶
I have always deeply admired James’ ability to accomplish the things that he set his mind to and his logical approach to pursuing those things that he is passionate about. I’d visit York for Thanksgiving as a teenager and he would invite me to play his favorite game—his flight simulator. The patience and dedication he would spend on it would blow my mind.
“Is the landing and takeoff fun at least? And how many hours do you do this? Do you avoid other planes?” “Nah, you just kind of watch the controls and adjust a couple of things and the plane kind of lands itself-I love it though.”
So, it was no surprise to me that he got his pilot’s license so early. What was a surprise was a spontaneous invite on a subsequent trip to escape Thanksgiving preparations and ride as a sole passenger as he logged training hours with an instructor while he attempted aborted landings. He assured me there was nothing to worry about in his carefree excitement and I mostly believed him. Watching my younger cousin (who could barely vote) fly through the skies and approach various Pennsylvania airports was one of the most incredible experiences I have ever had. I was, in that moment, and still am, so immensely proud of his confident pursuit of passion and his determination to make it work.
Years later, as his career brought him through New York more often he would make an effort to reach out every time (I think), with at least 2 hours notice. I think it speaks to James’ amenability, sense of adventure, and dedication to keeping in touch that he would be willing to track me down wherever I happened to be in the city, and he was always invited to join. James got to meet and hang out with my various friend groups, and most got used to unexpectedly seeing him tag along with me to whatever it was we were doing. But many times it just meant him coming over and getting to hang with Gabriella and me. “Got an event tonight? No? Cool if I come over?”
His visits were always welcome, and would inevitably turn into an evening hanging in our living room and talking into the night about anything under the sun. I would sit in amazement at his perspective on not just life, but at the way he would go about resolving any problems before him in this seemingly obvious way. I would get to live vicariously through his travels as he regaled me with stories from all the places he would go to but also kept me informed about family updates gained through other chance stops in places he had been.
I always appreciated these visits, as fly by night as they were, because there was a strong sense of kinship and familiality to them beyond a friendship and a good hang that I like to think reenergized us both. It would always invariably end with a big, tired, hug and a “I love you, cousin” before stumbling off to bed. I feel obligated to mention that he would always fold his sheets and leave everything tidier than how he found it before embarking onto his next destination, to Gabriella’s amazement.
The first trips up with Catherine before they announced their move were such natural fun; we were so thankful to have her in our lives and we were ecstatic when they announced they were planning the move. Unknowingly, they had visited while Gabriella was first pregnant. James held Livia when she was just a month old, and Catherine was so wonderful with her in all of their visits after that. The idea of having more family for Livia to grow up around reminded me of the closeness I felt with all of our extended cousins during our own childhood.
James and Catherine’s combined energy and willingness to explore this new city, to try and find the best places and things to do was and is an exciting light at the end of the tunnel after a year of infant-rearing for Gabriella and me. We talked endlessly about navigating the city, but there was plenty of time to do it and experience it together. Just like the texts I used to get when he would visit, James would reach out and see if they could come over and cook dinner with the understanding of Livia’s bedtime and it was wonderful. We would have a great time making dinner or even quietly chatting and sipping wine while waiting for Livia to fall asleep. I can’t express how much my heart bleeds at the thought that we only had those few when we talked about having so many.
It still does not feel real to write that I will miss James’ fun, relaxed style with a dash of maverick, his eagerness to be helpful and just. His willingness to go well out of his way for a new experience, his gumption. But as we all do, I really miss what will not come: trips to museums, picnics in the park, beach days, and so many dinner nights with wine and good conversation after Livia has gone to bed.
I grieve for the loss that James’ passing has meant for everyone he has touched, as widespread as he has traveled, and for those that had not yet met him, but would have. I grieve with Mark, Butci, Catherine, Kevin, Lukas, and Sam. He is survived by a family that loved him tremendously amplified by the love and joy for life he showed in return.
I love you, cousin. I miss you.
Luis, you have captured the spirit of James so beautifully in your memorial…… and the pic of him with Liv is one of my favorites.
I could almost hear his voice when I read the words “Got an event tonight? No? Cool if I come over?”
I know that you know how special you and your family were to him. He had a gift of letting people know how special there were, and it was genuine. We have truly lost a dear human being, but at the same time, I feel so honored to have known him and shared his space for so much of his life. Blessed are we all for the memories that we’ve shared and the ongoing love and relationship of Catherine and her family ♥️
Luis, I love that photo. Thank you for sharing those wonderful memories of James. I was also immensely proud of his confident pursuit of passion and his determination to make it work. And you had me in tears several times: you captured his spirt so well and so lovingly. I know that James also felt a strong sense of kinship and a familiarity to his visits with you that went beyond friendship. You’re much like James in the way you embrace the people in your orbit. And my heart also bleeds at the thought that you, Gabriella, James and Catherine only had those few times together. I hold you all in my heart. Please continue to think of him during your picnics in the park; he’ll be with in spirit ❤️
Over the past week, Luis and I have done much talking and reflecting on time spent with James. We have many wonderful memories, and are so thankful that we were able to see him as much as we did in recent months. James would go out of his way to stop by for visits anytime he had a layover in NYC, even if the visit would only be an hour or two. When those layovers instead became a Brooklyn residency for a newly engaged couple, we were all so excited.
James would frequently use a lull in the conversation to bring up something he was thankful for, or simply to express happiness in the moment. He’d let loved ones know he loved them, out loud and often. His positive attitude and perceptiveness to know how to be helpful without anyone even asking made it so easy and fun to spend time with him. Those are just a few qualities of his beautiful personality that I admire and feel grateful to have been on the receiving end of.
I thank him for all the dinners we shared, walks we took, plans we made, for giving me the gift of a friendship with Catherine, and for loving his little cousin, Livia. His memory will forever be in my heart, and in the stories we tell Livia about him.
To everyone who loved him and is holding on to sweet memories, please accept my condolences.
Dearest Gabriella,
Thanks for sharing your sentiments and pictures of our sweet James. I know that you know how much he loved you and your little family. He always told us how much he cherished his layovers that included your family. He and Catherine made a lovely home in Brooklyn, with your help, and were so excited to spend years together sharing adventures. Our hearts hurt for the dreams that you had. I trust that your memories will carry you forward. ♥️ Butci (and Mark)
Oh, Gabriella, I so wish the four of you had more time together. I join you in thanking James for the gift of our friendship with Catherine. She shares James kind heart and joyful spirit. We are blessed to have her and you in our family ❤️
I’m going to miss getting a surprise text from James that he was in my city and asking if I wanted to go for a hike or get dinner. We have definitely all learned a thing or two from him about how to stay in touch with family and bring people together.
I’m so grateful I saw you last weekend in NYC and will always remember you rocking your baby blue pedicure.
Thanks for being a great big cousin ❤️
Steph,
So very sweet, I love the picture of him holding you as a little girl. I think we will all miss the surprise texts. James was the best at pulling threads of people and their lives together.
He has taught me so many important lessons. ♥️ Aunt Butci
Aw, Steph, I love the photos you shared. So dear ❤️
We first heard of James from Bianca and Paola, who went all the way across the ocean to visit this great family and came back with many stories about all the adventures with the four kids. Then it was finally our turn to spend the summer with the new brothers, Butci and Mark.
It was six great summers, spent travelling in the big car, singing, playing in corn fields, fishing crabs and sleeping in the tent. James was always with us, trying to understand us in spite of our broken English and to make us feel at home with all the family!
The last summer we spent with James, we were 17 and travelled on our own in the south of Italy, camping, dancing tarantella, cooking pasta on the camping stove by the sea. His eyes full of awe and always ready to welcome the Italian oddities. It was a great summer for all of us and thinking of it makes us smile!
We spent a lot of time growing up together and his sweet smile lives in our memories!
Claudia and Lucia,
It was so sweet to read your post and see new pictures from your southern Italian adventure. James loved you both like sisters and learned how much fun traveling without a set plan could be.
We look forward to our paths crossing soon so that we can share some hugs and laughs in his honor. Thanks for being in our lives. ♥️ Butci
Dear sisters of James, thanks for sharing those wonderful photos. It was six great summers for all of us, too. I only wish it could have lasted forever ❤️
I never met James, but watched him countless times on his YouTube channel while he worked for Surf Air–I can honestly tell you there has never been ANY person on YouTube that has left more positive impression in my psyche than James Sullivan–I’m just wanting his family and loved ones to know that. RIP James, JPM
Wow, John. Thanks for sharing that ❤️
Thanks for sharing. Take his inspiration and run with it. You can do.
John, I loved hearing the positive impression that James’ YouTube videos left on you. Sweet, sweet, sweet. You would have loved him in person. ♥️
Dear James,
You were the one that made my daughter’s smile brighter and her adventurous spirit braver. You took Catherine under your wing and encouraged her to soar to places she would have never gone alone. Life is fuller and memories are richer because of you. Thank you for the love you showed and the incredible joy you brought to her life. We will never forget.
The first time I met you was when you and Catherine came by our home to borrow a ladder. You were helping her set up her classroom at school for the upcoming year. I loved how you were on her team and always willing without question. Thank you.
You lived a big life and encouraged those around you to do the same. I wish I could have bottled up some of your excitement and energy for people, events, adventure, skills, and knowledge. I have learned from you – Carpe Diem.
Your beautiful brown eyes were bright and sparkled when you smiled. Through those eyes, you saw the world and the people in it with graciousness and kindness. You loved people and building relationships was a priority. Thank you for teaching us well.
I have wonderful memories of sharing a family meal, tackling a puzzle during the holidays, meeting for a summer evening at Long Hollow Gardens, and meeting you and Catherine out for a pizza, burger at The Pharmacy, or taco. A favorite time that I will always treasure is when you took Catherine to her school early in the morning and then came by our home with no real purpose except to know each other better. I was baking cookies and you sat watching and talking and taste-testing as things came out of the oven. I loved our sincere and lively conversation
I will always remember the evening you and Catherine brought Mark and Grace to our home for dinner for us to meet. You were both nervous and anxious for all to go well. Little did you (and we) know what an instant connection and love we would feel for one another. People from different worlds come together in love for their children, authenticity in relationships, and genuine interest in each other’s lives. We laughed and commented that the next time they needed to bring their PJs so the night would not have to end. We will forever be connected, and I am grateful.
Gripping sadness and grief of our loss come in waves and the longing for more time with you will always remain. Memories are sweet and will forever be treasured and having known you, and loved you, James, will be forever!
Kelly
Aww, Kelly. Thanks for sharing our boy and moving him so. I loved reading all of your memories, and this really stood out: “Your beautiful brown eyes were bright and sparkled when you smiled. Through those eyes, you saw the world and the people in it with graciousness and kindness. You loved people and building relationships was a priority. Thank you for teaching us well.” And the time that James stopped by your home with no real purpose except to know each other better. Yep, that’s James. And the photo of James with his second Mom is adorable ❤️❤️
Kelly, you have captured the essence of James so well in your post. I’m sure that he is smiling down upon us, so pleased with himself for having joined our two wonderful families forever…….and the picture is a favorite of mine.
I’m so honored to share the role of “other mother” with you. ♥️ G
Dear Sullivan family, dear Catherine,
our sincere condolences.
James and Nick visited us in Frankfurt in 2008 and spent two weeks with us and our daughters Vici and Toni. We had the idea of driving to Berlin with the boys to show them the city and we all drove off together in a VW bus. The two boys had a fair bit of jet lag and the German history and the guided tour were a bit overwhelming for them. But what I remember well was James’s ability to find his way around. He was a very friendly, polite boy, helpful and always up for a joke with Nick. He made us his egg sandwiches for breakfast and the boys loved going to our city’s outdoor pool. He told us enthusiastically about his plans to become a pilot and when I read his CV now I am amazed at how he fulfilled his dream. My family and I are terribly sorry about your loss and we wish you lots of strength for the time ahead. I have attached a few photos of his visit. We will always remember James . Be hugged
Bettina , Kurt Victoria and Antonia
Wonderful memory! Thanks so much for hosting them and sharing these pics.
I love the Pink Floyd t-shirt. And that looks like a signed Spoon Gimme Fiction shirt!
Bettina, thanks for sharing that lovely memory and the photos ❤️
Betinna, thanks for sharing your memories and the photos of your adventures. I remember driving Nick and James to the airport as if it was just a few years ago. I’m happy that your family had the opportunity to share a piece of his short life. Be hugged back to you dear heart. ♥️ Butci
It was a wonderful blessing for me to know James and, through our precious Catherine, to welcome him into our family. He was intelligent, optimistic, creative, skilled, adventurous, gregarious, and loving (as attested by posts here from many family and friends). As I reflect on the times he and I shared one-on-one, like our lunch at 51st Deli in Nashville, I am reminded of what a great conversationalist and deep thinker James was.
I was often surprised by his enthusiasm for and ability to build friendships with so many people. He was one of the most relational people I’ve known. James extravagantly shared life with others.
I spent some moments in Brooklyn looking through his childhood keepsakes that Grace and Mark collected and was delighted to see his little boy stories and drawings, including imagined sports cars with clever and funny names. He clearly had an early-on fascination with exotic rides, although in time his car (!) clearly showed that his frugality had won the day.
I am grateful for the vibrant life that James had and shared with all of us. We will carry with us many memories of his beaming smile, hugs, and special moments.
James is so suddenly gone and I grieve with Mark, Grace, Kevin, Lukas, Sam, Kait, and Mattie, and all our extended family and friends. Especially, my heart breaks for Catherine. I love you C., and I am praying for you and for everyone.
I’m warmed that you’re grateful for the vibrant life James shared with you, and with all of us. Thanks for being there for him ❤️
“He clearly had an early-on fascination with exotic rides, although in time his car (!) clearly showed that his frugality had won the day.”
Such a good observation, very true ♥️
Kevin,
Thanks for sharing in James’ life. I chuckled at the word “frugality” since it’s something we completely missed as gathered descriptors to use in his memorial post. However, it is a word almost as important to him as family, friends and fascination. ♥️ G
I had the honor to be one of James’ mentors when he was an Intern at Southwest back in the summer of 2012. I am sadden to hear this news. My heart goes out to his family!
Fly high, James!
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Misty, thanks for adding your thoughts to his memorial page. Go forth and continues acts of kindness in his honor. ♥️ g
I feel so blessed and honored to have met and known James. He was so full of life..in a way that made everyone around him feel excited and joyous. My boyfriend and I used to joke that he was the true most interesting man in the world (Dos Equis man has nothing on James Sullivan). He was kind, funny and so generous with his friendship (and pool snacks). We met James and Catherine as our neighbors at Silo West, and we could both feel their authenticity as individuals and their love for life and one another right away. Catherine and James were such a beautiful representation of love and kindness. I am sending all my strength and comfort and love to Catherine and his family and friends. I know James is looking down with pride at how strong his loved ones are. May we all continue to honor him by staying hungry for life’s adventures and by sharing our love and friendship with others.
Thanks, Kathleen. I smiled wide at “the true most interesting man in the world” ❤️
Kathleen, thanks for sharing.
Honoring James’s hunger for adventure, love and friendship will be easy to do. ♥️ g
My deepest heartfelt condolences to Mark and Grace and the entire Sullivan family. I am Sam’s mother-in-law and did not know James. However, if he was anything like Sam, which I am certain he was reading all the beautiful memories. He most certainly was a kind and caring, loyal soul. I wish you peace during this healing journey.
Thanks, Donna ❤️❤️
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Thanks for making time to read and post on James’ page Donna ♥️ g
James was unlike any person we’ve ever met. Filled with an insatiable zest for life, I knew after Catherine introduced us we would be quick friends. A truly unique thing about him was that as much as he loved sharing his passions, he also had a true passion for getting to know the interests of the person he is talking to. He was always attentive, always asked questions (and who really wants to know the intricacies of data conversions or the three tier distribution system for alcohol in Alabama). I knew a phone call from James was never a five minute conversation, it would always be a minimum of thirty minutes and I would leave the call with an extra zest for life myself.
When meeting a group of our extended friends at the beach (momentarily extended friends — James had a habit I began to see of making quick, genuine connections with folks), Carri prepared everyone that they were about to meet the “human embodiment of a golden retriever.” And sure enough, 7 thirty something’s exhausted from our day jobs and driving five hours to the beach got instantly energized when James and Catherine showed up and James insisted we go to the beach that night (he also insisted on carrying all of the drinks in his cooler).
From cheering on Carri and Catherine in a race, to taking our daughter on her first flight (and probably blowing out his eardrums from her crying), to timing out leaving Birmingham to go to an almost snow-ridden Nashville with just enough time to spare so he could stay a few minutes longer to chat and finish a puzzle — the memories we are left with are fond ones of a great friend, a great son and brother, and especially of such a loving partner for Catherine.
James, you are already missed and the world is a lesser place without you. We hope all who knew him can take a little bit of your passion and enthusiasm for life into our own and pay tribute to you.
Thanks, Jay. I loved reading your memories and I share your hope about carrying forward his passion and enthusiasm for life. The “human embodiment of a golden retriever” is such a good descriptor, and you had me laughing with his intense interest in the intricacies of data conversions or the three tier distribution system for alcohol in Alabama. Thanks for that ❤️
Jay, I laugh each time that I read your post, and smile at the pictures you have shared.
I knew the story and had seen the pictures, but never in complete context from the parents in the back seat! The world is a lesser place without James, but if we all commit to do our acts of kindness, then the world will be net positive. ♥️ h
I had the honor and privilege to conduct James’ Captain OE at ATI. He showed up ready to go and I knew early on this was going to be easy training! He was a great pilot and an even better man. He was a fun guy to fly with and made our trip great!! I was happy that James had his career fully in check! My condolences to his fiancé, mom and dad, and the rest of his family and friends James was awesome and it truly hurts me to see such an amazing man leave this earth to soon. Rest in Peace James, thank you for being a lasting memory in my life. This pic was taken after James was signed off from Captain OE.
Thanks, Scott. I remember James talking fondly of you after that (unnecessarily) stressful moment of flying his upgrade OE (unnecessarily stressful because James over prepared for everything that mattered in his life). James was always running into good people, wherever he went and whatever he was doing. Thanks for being one of them ❤️
Thanks Scott. You touched his heart too. Grace
We spent a lot of time with the Sullivan family in Delaware when our boys were young and then visiting them in Minnesota and Seattle. Reading all these beautiful memories of James as an adult, it is obvious he remained the same caring, fun, adventurous, loving person he was many years ago. The last time we spent time with James was while the family was living in Pennsylvania, probably 20 years ago. Our son was there in a soccer tournament. James (and I believe Lukas) somehow joined the team for dinner. This team was not a group of quiet boys. But I remember watching and magically it was like James was holding court. The boys were all silent, captivated by James and whatever stories he was telling them! Obviously he was as much of a leader then as he was throughout his life.
We grieve with the rest of James’s community of friends and family for the loss of such a special person.
There are things in life that are so difficult to understand and this is certainly one of those times. Our hearts are broken.
We have always leaned on the words:
A joy shared is twice the joy; a sorrow shared is half the sorrow.
We share in the joy that James brought to all of us he touched. We share the sorrow of the man the world has lost.
Karen and Larry Knorr
Thanks for sharing, Karen. Our young families had some really nice times together in those early days. I loved your memory of James “holding court.” Yes, many of us found him to be captivating ❤️
Thanks Karen, what a nice walk down memory lane. ♥️ Butci
While James was only an acquaintance through Lukas and Sam during our high school days, it always felt like he was an “everybody’s friend” type of person. The happiness, kindness, and joi de vivre he embodied was magnetic because of how genuine you knew it was.
Reading the tributes from everyone whose lives he impacted has been truly touching. Thank you all for sharing his story and all of the amazing memories and experiences you shared with him. What a life well-lived and well-loved!
I’m heartbroken and dismayed for his family, friends and loved ones. Holding you all close. ❤️
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Thanks for reading and sharing ♥️
Caroline, I loved seeing you here on James’ memorial page. You’re spot on saying that James was “everybody’s friend”, perhaps there’s a message in that for all of us. Be kind ♥️ g
Oh big bro, I can’t help but reflect on our childhood and remember how much I always looked up to you and the many ways you shaped who I am.
Following in your footsteps with a love for music: from starting piano lessons after you, to critiquing your recreation of Spoon’s drumlines using buckets in the garage, all the way to practicing Californication with your friends for the talent show just to have York Catholic put the hammer down on it, and even beyond as we’d talk about our latest listening habits into adulthood. Heck, you’re the only reason I still have the start of Maple Leaf Rag memorized; you were always so excited to show off lil bro’s talents to your friends.
Then there’s all of the inspiring life choices you made to chase your career and hobby, which I closely followed by chasing my own dreams. We were still both kids when you first flew me in a Cessna — such a cool experience! Your love for flying made a lot more sense to me then, and I was so proud of you for achieving your goal. Together we made goofy amounts of money in high school with our “test iPhone” websites and related FB groups, allowing me to build the computer I still have today; you also helped me practice my hobby of programming with more serious projects like Answers for Pilots. Then we were able to have such a fun weekend while you had your first experience as a young adult in Frederick while interning for the AOPA. Watching someone like you work for what they wanted, and achieve their dreams, is probably why I thought I’d be able to work for the MLB at Camden Yards when I was 13. It’s definitely why I was ready to get out of high school and into the real world. While in St. Louis, I was consistently out-of-place young and it never held me back because I knew it didn’t matter thanks to you.
That time of my life is when we got to make some of the coolest memories together, although the timeline gets a bit blurry at times. Not only did you visit the Lou countless times, but I visited you at your jobs in Detroit and Texas. I think the latter would’ve been the time you took me for a pit stop in New Orleans, thanks to your airline travel perks. You and I screamed our heads off for the Cardinals clenching a spot in the World Series and laughed our heads off watching pigeons overtake the field repeatedly in Detroit. You were always so excited to visit the Lou and talk to Steve and checkout the latest TrackBill digs. Of course you managed to make it to my 21st birthday that he and I were celebrating in Vegas. And, even more fitting, you made sure to pick up cousin Chad for the birthday bash. Whenever we’d hang out, just like childhood, we’d stay up until the wee hours playing video games, or just hanging out; unlike childhood, we never “had to” turn off the screen and hide when we heard footsteps.
I remember feeling like I was settling down quicker than you were ready to, but when Mattie came around you were so excited to be her favorite uncle. It was clear you were well on your way and even had your end game planned: flying her in a plane you built yourself. I’m so sorry that you weren’t able to get to introduce Catherine to our family, but I am looking forward to hearing any and all memories of you that she has to share from your past few years of life here on this earth. Mattie has been soaking up the family time this week, as we remember all of the special parts of you, and I can only imagine nothing would make you happier than knowing that your life could bring so many people together in love.
You always made so many friends, with so much mutual love, and were so eager to share those relationships with the other people in your life. I have countless great memories surrounded by friends of yours from all sorts of different stages of your life and parts of this country. It’s painfully obvious, reading everyone’s memories with you, how amazing you were at connecting with people in such a deep and meaningful way. Making differences in your life around every possible corner. You’ve made a lasting impact on many.
As hard as it was to hear of your passing, I found solace shortly after knowing that you were doing what you loved most. It was only fitting that you were flying to Oshkosh with a friend, a place I assume you’ve been most years over the past decade+. Seeing you and Sean with bright smiles in your final moments only confirms that you were doing what you loved most — being in the sky, where your soul always knew it needed to be. We’ll never forget you nor your positive impact that you had on us all ♥️
OMG, Sam. That’s a beautiful set of memories. “I can only imagine nothing would make you happier than knowing that your life could bring so many people together in love.” So true. And I’ll think of that every moment that we’re together with you, Kait and Mattie this week. I love you deeply, Pops ❤️
Sam, you’ve captured the essence of James in your heartfelt post. He truly was one of the best “connectors of people”, a gift that came naturally to him. It is my hope that those connections are happy reminders for me each time that I experience them. He was such a kind, accepting and gentle being.
I’m so sorry for your loss of a truly grand friend and brother. I trust that you will find peace in your heart with his silent guidance of love for all beings. ♥️ merm
What can I say about our dear James that hasn’t already been expressed by so many of us who knew him and are grieving over this loss? In reading these captions – my heart is heavy but ever so thankful to have been touched by his wonderful soul and in seeing just how many lives he impacted.
I first met James in 2018 when we were in initial training at Compass Airlines. As I recall – we had rented a minivan to cart some of us around – running errands and such. I remember James renaming it “the dad van” – and the name was spot on. That was my first memory of his great sense of humor.
It’s hard to imagine most my aviation career without a memory of James at some point. When the COVID pandemic hit the industry hard, he was a great mentor to me – providing recommendations, and always staying positive that things would work out for the better. I had the opportunity to work with him on a project at Sullivair and it really kept me motivated while most of the industry was down.
Later on I was fortunate enough to join him flying the 767 at Air Transport International. Most will remember how proud we all were to see the accomplishment of his upgrade to Captain. In a twist of scheduling fate, we even flew as a crew together shortly after he upgraded.
As our career’s progressed and we moved on to our eventual “forever” aviation careers – I particularly recall trudging through the application and interview processes in tandem, and James was a great source of encouragement and support.
Indeed there were countless parties and travels together throughout the years. James loved to have fun and filled each day with the spirit of living. In 2022 I met Catherine after hearing so much about her and instantly knew how wonderful they were for each other.
A few photos to share of our memories: a 4th of July celebration in Manhattan, and a quick getaway to Hawaii prior to starting at our new companies.
To Catherine, the Sullivan & Kiser families: our deepest sympathies are with you during this time. As we grieve know that all of us are sending our love and compassion to you, and that our hearts are breaking alongside yours.
Wherever you are now James, I wish you tailwinds and the fairest skies. Ryan and I miss you terribly, and your memory fills us with hope, laughter, joy, and happiness.
Love always my friend,
Zach
Aww, Zach, that was lovely. Hugs to you and Ryan ❤️
Dearest Zach and Ryan, you were two really special beings in James’ short life. I appreciate reading your memories and was thrilled to see the pictures you posted, because now I can put your names with your faces. I know that James wanted Mark and I to know you both, so in true James fashion, we should find a way to get together in LA or Boston in the near future and give each other hugs. Until, and forever, go forward living your lives spreading acts of kindness, as James has taught us. ♥️ Grace
In April we were blessed to meet James and Catherine via FaceTime. We met with many applicants to live in our building, but knew immediately that this beautiful couple was a match. When they finally moved here last month we immediately felt as though we’ve always known them. Dom and I loved talking to them. When sitting outside our house, I’d introduce them to all the neighbors. Everyone loved the handsome pilot and his beautiful Catherine. They adjusted to Living in Brooklyn very fast. We cross paths a few times a day and at one point, I told James that I knew more about his month than I did my own son because of our great conversations lol I told them that we were available 24/7 with anything they needed and of course that still stands true for Catherine. Our heartfelt condolences to James’ family, Catherine and family and his many friends ~ Sincerely, Liz and Dom
Liz and Dom, we are greatly comforted to know that you’re close to Catherine. Thanks for being you ❤️
Dear Liz and Dom, Thank you for your kindness and compassion as we gathered in Brooklyn this week. James loved you both. I appreciate you keeping an eye on my Catherine and holding her close. 🤍
Rest assured that we will. Dom has already made friends with Newton and said he’s going up everyday even just to pet him so he won’t be lonely. We all know James is flying high leading the angels and watching over his girl. ❤️
Liz and Dom, Reading your post, I am reminded that James and Catherine are blessed with yet another set of parents that loved them so quickly and deeply.
Another deliberate “people connection” made by James.
I know that you both will continue to support our dear Catherine as she processes through her grief. I’m sure we will see a lot of you both in the upcoming months, and that warms my ♥️. G
We will be here. Ask her to share our numbers with both you and her mom. Thinking of you all ~ Liz
I truly believe that James was given the passion and talent to fly so he could spread his love and joy to far flung friends and relatives. I cherish the times that James came to visit in Colorado. He found such great joy in the mountains, never mind that he never had the right footwear or other gear. He wanted to explore and learn and enjoy, from the hot springs to the ski slopes. Rides up various chair lifts with his brother and cousin and shots of Underberg were always a highlight. He never failed to make me laugh, and make me feel important since he made it seem like I was imparting great wisdom no matter if that was true. On one of his last visits here, Catherine joined him, and their love for each other shone brightly. This week Quinn and I revisited a hike we did with James on his first visit to Steamboat in 2016. It brought back such happy memories, even though then we nearly got lost hiking off trail, an experience documented in one of his YouTube videos. I know now, I will remember James and smile whenever I am out hiking, and his smile will stay with me forever.
Tim, I really like the thought that James was given the passion and talent to fly so he could spread his love and joy to far flung friends and relatives. Thanks for that, bro ❤️
Tim, you were one of James’ greatest people. He knew that you shared so many of the same loves in life. People connections, adventures, kindness, the great outdoors and learning. I look forward to viewing the YouTube that you mentioned in your post.
I’m so sorry for your loss of a true dear nephew and mentee. You were correct in thinking that you were “imparting great wisdom” upon him. He cherished your knowledge. ♥️ B
And the hot springs YouTube.
James,
I never had a brother. I did have a sister though, and we have been inseparable since birth. Catherine has always been my best friend. You were the first boyfriend she had ever let me meet. I had an idea you were going to be special.
The first time we met, we went to Pins Mechanical with Catherine and Sydney. We probably had one too many beers, and I questioned you a lot. I didn’t know if I could trust you with my best friend. 🙂 Walking to LA Jackson with your arm around me, passing the vape back and forth (we quit vaping I promise Catherine & Sydney), and giving me multiple giant hugs. We had already become friends night one.
We weren’t very much alike James. In stature, personality (I am nowhere near as outgoing or willing to do stuff every single night like you were), and interests (I wish I could have converted you to a Titans fan). We were friends though. That’s the kind of person you were. You could be friends with anyone. No matter their background, status, age, or hobbies. I always admired that about you.
People know you as a pilot and lover of all things aircraft. I knew you as a boater. That was one hobby we both loved. Looking back at our texts, I could not believe how much we talked about boating. I noticed you saved the boating safety sheet I gave you when looking through your things this week. I thought that was really sweet. You were a captain at heart, and you wanted to be one on the water when you weren’t in the air. I love that we had that together.
When you told me you planned to ask Catherine to be married. I remember an instant feeling of happiness. Then you told me you were both moving to New York. I wasn’t too excited about that news, but hindsight I knew it was the right thing for both of you. Catherine had finally found her new best friend, and I could not be happier that she found someone that loved her as much as you.
James, I never had a brother until I met you. Words can never express how grateful I am for the way you showed Catherine how to be loved. You were special, and my sister was so lucky to have you for the time she did.
I love you,
Michael
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Such a sweet post Michael. I love the boater hobby 🙂 . That makes total sense to me. I’m glad Catherine has a strong best friend right now. Love to you both.
I’m so happy to hear your perspective and glad he treated your sister the way she deserved. I’m so sorry that he was taken away from her too soon, it’s not fair.
I look forward to meeting you soon, brother ♥️
Aww, Michael. That’s the biggest compliment a young man could ever receive: to be accepted with open arms as the boyfriend and then fiance of your inseparable, and deeply loved big sister. I’ve loved getting to know you and Sydney this week. I hope you’re in our lives always. (Just another example of James bringing people together.) ❤️❤️
Dearest Michael,
Your memorial post has filled my heart more than you could imagine!
I am so happy that you trusted James with Catherine’s heart three years ago, and so sad to know the pain that she is feeling now.
I know that there’s a bigger purpose to this tragic ending of a beautiful life. Perhaps together, and with his guidance, we will get to the other side and see the true reason that James had bought us all together, I’m so thrilled to have you, Catherine and Sydney as my son and daughters through James. ♥️ G
I have never met you but was privy to hearing about the kind person you are via your brother. He spoke very highly of his brother “the pilot” and beamed with pride whenever he mentioned you. I was saddened to hear of the loss of such a great individual. Extending condolences and prayers to the entire Sullivan family and friends. May Mr. James RIP.
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I met James July 15, 2019. I still have the text messages. James was my First Officer on a trip at Compass Airlines. He was humble and extremely impressive. We ended up on an adventure during our overnight which took us to a mysitcal speak easy bar that required a passwords and had themes of Alice in Wonderland.
He casually mentioned that he owned an aircraft repair company, and he was the chief mechanic! He was sending employees on trips to fix aircraft that were stranded around the United States. He looked so young, I could hardly believe it. He started his own company after his previous employer didn’t give him credit for saving the company $10’s of thousands of dollars every few months. There was some part that kept breaking, and he had a brilliant solution. I wish I could remember the details.
He also told me about his YouTube channel–which was also very impressive. It didn’t seem like James was old enough to have accomplished so much. Days didn’t seem long enough for him to have so many hobbies that he was so good at so quickly.
He was such a nice guy. I called him out of the blue when Covid hit. We talked for over an hour.
Everything about James was impressive. It’s heartbreaking that the world lost such an incredible person so young.
He was young, Matt. But – as you observed – he packed a lot of life and love into those 32 years. My heart bleeds for those he left behind ❤️
Matt,
Thanks for sharing your memories and friendship with dear James.
I always like to put a name with a face, so if you have a pic of you two, or were featured in a VLOG, please consider uploading it for me. ♥️ G